Me and my girlfriend have recently decided we want to have sex, it will be my first time, but not hers, and im actually scared for one reason.
Before i met her i cud masturbate(myself) for a good 40 minutes, stopping and starting, but now i can only go for 3 minutes max and its really worrying. The last couple of days within 30 seconds i was fully ejaculating.
My question is, when i have sex, is it likely i will ejaculate after a short amount of time because i have lost all my self control since i met her, i felt i didnt need it and wanted to cum as soon as possible, but now i want to last as long as possible, but i cant.
I also find it hard to do any kind of stop starting now because ive been disciplining myself to cum asap :frowning:.
What can i do? Should i tell my g/f? Should i not have sex, even though i really want too except for this reason?
Luckily, shes on at the moment, so i have time to ask :frowning:
Thanks for ure help.