Is cyber cheating?
Cybersex - comic relief for me. I mean, how can chatting with someone who's about 500 miles away, not knowing what he/she looks like, be considered anything close to sex? I find it more funny and anything else, though.
Cheating? I don't think so, since it's not even sex, really, but that's just my little ol' opinion...
You don't have to have sex (real or not) to be cheating.
Not to become dogmatic in this discussion, but since it was brought up, there is a few passages in the Bible about "if thy hand offends thee, cut it off. If thy eye offends thee, pluck it out. For it is better for one member of the body to be cast into hell than the whole." Or something like that, I'm going off memory here.
Any more thought on this issue?
Okay here's how I look at it. If what you're doing is all secretive and has the flavor of cheating then it is. How would I feel about my hubby doing it? Well if he were open about it, wasn't going to meet the girl, and was still doing me, I wouldn't care. And I wouldn't feel that he was cheating anymore than looking at porn, or having phone sex with a phone sex operator. But that's just me. And if you're read my other posts you know I'm a little weird. lol
As to "what would Jesus do?" Don't really care. I'm not a Christian. So you're asking me what a heretic would do. Not the kind of person I would look to as a roll model.
I find it cheating...
There are a lot of good points here. I think it’s cheating. I didn’t really think much about it until I discovered that it was going on behind my back.I was (am) devastated. The violation of my trust completely crushed me. I could have never predicted how hard it would hit me. To add insult to injury,they had developed an emotional bond too.Just be careful please!
My wife and I tried it together and alone . It really didn't do it for us, but thats us. We have been married a long time so we don't have sex nearly as much as we used to but it still is as hot as ever, we go out of our way to please each other , I make sure she has multiple orgasms ( I love to watch her have em too)and I can do anything I want (within reason). The key is we try to please the other partner, this is vital in my mind. Next time you do have sex with her , try to make it about her, you'll have an orgasm , us guys ALWAYS do. Try using toys (vibrators, dongs etc. she might have a few already)watch her moan, it's really hot.Cyber, if you feel bad then it's probably cheating but I wouldn't call it adutery.
Imagine how you would feel if your significant other was having "Sex" with someone across the USA with a keyboard, mouse, and a monitor...Thats what I think about it...thats why I dont do it.
exactly!
You could get a vasectomy :smile:
In reply to: You could get a vasectomy huh?
Well, if she doesn't want to do the whole birth control thing, that would take care of it!
oh, i think one of us went off topic here. no prob. this is a topic close to me though!
The guy was talking about birth control earlier.
thanks, i guess i was skimming
Wierd that i would find this thread, as just before christmas I was caught out by my bf.......he was only pissed that i had lied to him, not that i was actually, in some strange kinda relationship with a guy in the the US. We have a fab sex life at home, but there is something that does it for me, with the guy online....its hard to explain!What i do know is that i am a huge hipocrite (hmmm how do you spell that lol) cos tho he understands me, i don't think i could be as understanding if he had done the same
i dont consider it cheating
According to the Pope(VATICAN) it is.
