After weeks of speculation, rumours and other shit, i have finally asked out this girl, my first. She likes me and i like her and were currently planning a date. But i have a feeling of awkwardness around her, usually in conversations with more than 3 people i can be loud, funny and so but in 1 on 1 conversation, im timid, awkward and kinda boring. This week, when ever im around her, i get like this and i can see shes feeling awkward too. Im planning a date, but i hope this does not continue, also i dont know how to act around her. Some of my mates are kinda shocked that i havn't hugged her yet, and others think i dont spend enough time round her.
Hey, it always takes time to get used to something new. The fact that she is awkward too suggests you are well matched. It won't continue, you'll get more used to being with each other, so keep seeing each other, and ask her about herself and talk about yourself so you know each other better.
Let her have her space in school and stuff like that. Ask her opinions on things, or a problem you may have and you want advice. Don't buy into your friends with no hugging or kissing they should mind their own business.
Good luck on your date.
"This is not my life
It's just a fond farewell to a friend-"
Thanks guys. we have planned to meet up tommorrow at a cinema, any advice from you guys would be helpful.
OMG!!! I thought that was me writing this. Man i know how you feel.There's this girl i work with who i would love to be with (another issue) and even though we can talk to eachother quite easily i always feel an awkwardness or tention between us.Maybe its just me coz the difference here is that she knows how you feel about her where in my case she doesn't know.Do you know where i'm coming from?