How do I stop doing IT?

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Okay, I think I've been masterbating for a while now and I'm ONLY 14! I really like it BUT I REALLY need to stop because the way I kinda see it, it's kinda gross but somehow, I just LOVE the sensation. Should I stop masterbating? I can wait until I get married and have sex with my future husband, but that's IF I ever get married (which I doubt i will ever). So I have a plan like, if I can't get a guy in highschool, the chances are that I'll have a one night stand with someone else! OMFG. Also, one problem is, if I HAVE a onenight stand with a guy, I could end up with STI's or something like that so maybe a female might help my sexual sensations? I think I'm better off masterbating because I know that I'm not a lesbian and that I don't want to live with STI'S all my life. What should I do??Love,Masterbating Chick addict

I think it's a normal think that every one does. your not hurting anyone or anything. it's better for you to do that and get your orgasam then to do it with a guy and end up with a kid or something worse.

> it's kinda gross but somehow

Why?

> Should I stop masterbating?

No.

Masturbation is the safest form of sex.

THANKS! Yeah, well, masterbating is alright but how do I face it to myself? I do stress out a lot that my teachers tell me to relax and de-stress in random times. I never thought that people could be easygoing about the masterbating subject. I have a question though: Am I suppose to masterbate when I get that horny feeling? People think that I wouldn't masterbate....kinda weird for thinking that I wouldn't. Hahaha. THANKS btw *wink.

I still don't understand why you think it's "gross somehow". To me it's as "gross" as going out for a cup of coffee. That is to say, it's fun.Don't worry about what other people might think about what you do in the privacy of your own home. It's none of their business. They themselves probably do much weirder stuff.

So true. I don't think it's weird, but many people that I know think so, that's why I'm afraid to be so open about this subject. What are you suppose to think when you masterbate anyways?

What are you suppose to think when you masterbate anyways?That is a very personal question. You're not "supposed" to think about anything in particular when you masturbate. Whatever makes you happy is what you should think about, in the privacy of your own head.

OHhhh . Makes sense now.

Just do what your body tells you, honey.Follow your heart and you will find the door to the truth!