I'm 14 and my body looks like an 18 yr old body and I look way older than my age!!! I added a few pounds and now look like a medium sized body. Gosh, but I can't seem to grab guys intrests and have them want to talk to me. Do I SOUND desperate? Maybe, but I'm not all googled up on doodes though, not really into them right now since I can't seem to get a guy anyway. What should I do? I mean I KNOW I should wait and see if a guy I want comes my way but that's practically a lot of guys. Am I just too chubby, unattractive, or just annoying to guys when I'm open? I seem like just the girl who becomes a guy's friend. Really sucks because when I like the guy that I'm getting close to like a guyfriend, they don't like me the way I do. What can/should I do?
What's with me not getting a guy???
The most important thing is to be happy with yourself. Accept yourself as you are and guys will pick up on that. At the moment you do sound desperate and potentially clingy, and that puts guys off.
You shouldn't be so relying on looks. Though it's the main thing that attracts a guy your personality should be something to focus on. A lot of guys that hit on me only do it for looks so I stay away from them. Be careful about that. It just means they want to get in your pants. The only guy I went out with was an accident and likes me because of the way I am/act. Not just my physique. So don't be too hasty in looking for a guy. He'll come the right time. Don't worry about it.
"Isso é como nós latinas/meninas pretas fazemos. Vá ou flua.. ya digg?"
your 14 , i woudlnt worry about it, and yh a nice peronality is a good thing
yh i could get of my arse and do soemthing with my life , but then i would have to re do my arse groove
Don't worry the right guy will come around and everyone is pretty!
It's ok your time will come
A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.