i notice when my friends are talking to female friends of theirs, they sometimes suddenly get all calm and the girl goes all calm and they act all flirty. like theyll be joking around and laughing and suddenly you'll see a kind of attraction between them. this is when theyll hug or whatever. the thing is i cant do that with girls. i can be all jokey and i have friendships with girls, but i can never get all flirty. also, my closest female friend tells me im bad at hugging, like im all stiff and i widen my arms too much. but i dont feel it when i hug a girl. any advice?
No good at fliting.
yh i understadn you , im a bit awakard around anyone i dont know very well,its best not to try and force it
and when hugging its best to just not think about it ,then its normally quite natural
yh i could get of my arse and do soemthing with my life , but then i would have to re do my arse groove
Some of us just aren't relaxed enough to hug well. I don't think we can change that easily or quickly, but it's far from fatal.