is it possible to cum without ejaculating? while i was masterbating the other day some seemed to come out previous to the actual orgasm. Is that normal? I just figured it was because it had been a while since i previously had an orgasm. Also, how long does sperm live for? The reason I ask is I had sex one night, twice, and if the cum was still on the penis for the second time. It was with my long time girlfriend and that's why there was no condom.
It is possible to orgasm without ejaculating.
What you saw come out before orgasm was probably precum..
Sperm can live quite a while in the urethra. If you had sex twice.. there was a very high risk of impregnating her the second time you did it. (that's how I got my first child)
Relevant thread: Ejaculation without Orgasm
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were you guys not using any form of birth control. or was the child planned
No birth control.. not planned.