I am going to have sex with my g/f, and we are both virgins. All of my friends are telling me that she will cry and not enjoy it the first time. Is there anything that you guys have done to comfort the girl while it's happening so it is not as bad for her(or girls has any guys done anything good that helped you)? I am 17 if that matters
Losing your virginity
it actually depends..since your 17 it will prolly hurt her, but its ok
after the first couple of times of having sex it'll be more enjoyable and less painful for the both of you
but the first time to ease the pain and not make it as hurtful just kiss her and go slow and make her comfortable
you shouldn't just stick it in right away, you should losin her up by doing four play first
then go for the home run. ahha
Main key points is take it slow.. lots of foreplay to help relax and losen up .. and try and get her to relax.. If she tenses up it will increase the pain. It will be painfull for her but take your time. The first time me and my GF did it it was about 10 min before I was completly inside.
Slow and steady wins the race
deffinatlly do not rush in and force it. take your time and make her happy the whole way.
"You tried and you failed, the moral is never try." - Homer J. Simpson
Lots of foreplay will help alot.. It will probably hurt her for say... the first minute.. but it doesnt take long for the pain to subdue and the pleasure to kick in
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
be slow with her and gentle dude .. good luck
try stretching her a bit by putting one finger in her vagina, then two etc and see how things go. also try using some lube. it'll help things go a bit 'smoother', excuse the pun. best of luck mate!