I have a great girlfriend but every now and then she tells me about stuff like how she used to be a slut and that, and it really bothers me cause i hate sluts.But she regrets doing them things and she aint a slut now it was like years ago but i still feel really bothered about it, is this wrong of me to be bothered?
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Why is it hard to not be bothered about the past?
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When she tells you this does she say it as in jokingly or is it in serious conversation.If it's the latter then maybe she is trully regretful by it and wants you to understand she is past this.
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i think maybe you feel threatened that because she was a 'slut' as you say, you think she may cheat on you. Or maybe you feel a little ashamed of her. Either way, give her a little respect dude. If she's such a great girl, stop talking about her with words like 'slut' and accept her. Especially be grateful that she's changed. Nobodys perfect, remember that.
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Thanks guys, i dunno i guess i was feeling ashamed of her cause of her past which is wrong.
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Everyone...... has a past. This is a fact. We are who we are because of the events that took place in our past. Loving us and understanding us today means understanding and acknowledging our past.
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You may want to try forgetting about it.. if you can't then you might want to end the relationship.. im pretty sure she'd be heartbroken to know you feel ashamed of her.
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If i told her how i feel she would just get pissed off at me and tell me to leave her lolIl just forget about it i've got enough problems as it is
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What hurts more is when you are a virgin having sex with a slut for your first time and staying with her. I did that and the end result was that I needed to sow some wild oats myself after she was unfaithfull. My ex was a slut and then I became a slut too.
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oh jesus hard lucki just happen to be a virgin, hope everythings ok with me lol
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I agree, if she is your girlfriend, you shouldn't call her a "slut" or a use-to-be one either. (even if it's true). She probably feels ashamed and wants you to know the truth about her past. Just keep in mind that ppl don't always change.