Cum too soon - 17 years old - what wrong?

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I'm a 17 year old boy, and I masturbate alot (4-6 times a week) , but I can only last for about 30 seconds or less. I have read all over this forum that boys last about 3 to 10 mins or more, and I only last about less than a minute before I cum. Do I have like that disease of premature ejaculation, or will I probably last longer when I am with a real girl? When I am really exited, I only have to rub my penis about 10 or 20 times slowly to cum, and no its not precum. What is wrong? I also have one more question, my penis is about 4.5" erect, but I would say 5.5 inch If I push to the bone. Is this a normal size for a 17 year old. Will I grow bigger? It is really depressing I am small because, my lil bro who is about 13, has a 7" erect penis, and he is taller than me. Wierd

Ususally your first time with a girl you cum fast anyway...due to the difference in feeling. I know that if my gf gives me a handjob I last like fucking 20 mins (its annoying), but if I do, its anywhere between 1 min and 10 minutes.Don't worry about your size either...girth is more important than length (so I've been told)

Take your time, go slow; in due time you will be able to last longer. It's all in the timing and method; and no you don't have any disease. As far as your 5.5" this is normal for your age and average is between 5.5 to 6.5.... you should still be growing and only time will tell until you reach 21 or so. Your younger brother is 13 with a 7" erect penis? Let's hope he don't keep growing, as that would really be depressing! :angry: You also might be a late bloomer, and just might outgrow him... again time will tell. Good luck, and don't worry!

HI - i think every guy has this problem somtimes. As the previous poster said take your time and don't rush it. Stop when you think you are getting close. Have you always been this fast in cumming when you jo? All guys can get carried away and ruch things as it usually feels so goo. But if you slow down you are likley to get more pleaseure out of the session as a whole.I take it your little brother has told you he has seven. Are you sure he is telling the truth. As at 13 to have a seven incher means he has started the groth spurt realy early. He may not get any bigger at all.We are all differnt when it comes to puberty and stuff. DOnt worry if you end up smaller than him as it is nothing to be ashamed of. I am only 5 when fully up and I think that is also on the smaller side, but as there is nothing I can do about it I don't worry to much.At 17 you still might have growing to do as well so just let natur take its course and see what the end results are.

As people have said, just go slow and perhaps use a lube - sometimes slows things down?A method they say is effective is the "Stop and Go". Jackin World is a really good site for all things masturbationary.

Welcome to AfraidToASk, monkeybutt05.

Time for masturbation and time for vaginal sex can be very different. For some guys masturbation is fast and vaginal sex slow, and for some guys it's the opposite. However it may help to train your response by the stop-go method: masturbate until you are close to cumming, but not at the point of no return, and stop. Wait a minute or two to "cool down", then start again, and repeat the process as many times as you can.

You are a little smaller than average in penis size, but well within what's normal. It's impossible to predict with certainty whether you will grow any more, but if it happens that you have been the same size for the last year the chances are you won't. Your little brother is much larger than average even for an adult, but he may well have stopped growing. His size and height compared with yours shows how different results can come from the same gene lottery. That can be depressing, but perhaps there are other areas in which you have done better than him. In any case, the important thing for all of us is what we make of what we are given. We should try not to concentrate on what we lack compared with others, but be glad of what we have.

that stop and go method, could you use that on a girl too? would she mind if you slowed down to stop yourself from cumming? sorry to hijack the topicand also i hear about visualizing stuff to keep your mind from triggering an orgasm. like, thinking about clouds, chairs, buckets, math equasions...does that work?

She might mind unless she understood the reason, so she'd have to know beforehand you were going to do it.Thinking about other stuff doesn't work very well in my experience.