I have recently entered a wonderful relationship where we're both hugely attracted to each other. I haven't really had much sex in the past year (kind of split with my original GF earlier this year, but we weren't too active in the year prior to this).
I did have a bed friend for a little while this year who loved a good shagging, quite often. However I wasn't able to penetrate to the full length of my penis (~7") as it was painful for her. My previous long term GF was the same.
Anyway, my new partner loves it deep - right up until I hit the cervix. I can just about get it all in depending on position. However, the head of my penis is taking a real beating.
Last weekend we had sex probably 15 times from Friday night to Sunday morning. By that time it was taking me quite a long time to come (though I didn't mind if I did or not it was still great), and my knob took a real beating. It's a tad uncomfortable now and very slightly itchy as it seems to heal.
I imagine this is going to desensitize the head and possibly detract from future pleasures? Is this possible, and is there any way to prevent/slow the process? Creams to help heal it? She was always quite lubricated naturally, though was quite tight. My foreskin + knob was rather red and sometimes swollen, though it subsided pretty quickly.
By the way, the whole time I consistently checked with my partner to make sure that she was not sore - she assured me that she wasn't, and that she was having a ball and wanted more and more. I actually had to give up penetration on her last couple of advances as it was too painful for me, and ended up just kissing her all over and giving her the full on treatment without penetration (which I normally do as part of foreplay anyway - I absolutely love it).
Any experienced ideas appreciated.
Desensitization with insane amounts of intercourse
Have less sex. Or atleast don't be as rough.
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It depends if it takes you 5 minutes to cum the first time and 30 min after the 15th time. I have learned that if you take it slower and longer the pleasure is often greater when you orgasm. Sometimes you have to take a break mid time to give her the ol' g-spot a working over. After squirting a few times, she may feel worn out and a little sensitive herself.
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Anyone who has sex 15 times in a weekend is likely to be a bit sore. It's not likely that you'll have sex 15 times every weekend. I'd be surprised if she didn't feel a bit sore after all that, too.
I had thought that with more time and age, 15 times in a weekend you wouldn't have been so sore, though obviously with this would come a desensitization overall. A trade-off, you could say.
I am uncut, so I'm probably more sensitive than cut guys too, though I imagine that will change if it all continues. I know that less sex would obviously do the trick, though if it's fun and it feels good.... yes it was a bit painful towards the end but still well worth it.
Although she said that she wasn't, maybe she was a bit sore, but she still continued to hop on until I resisted and just had the fun without penetration.
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I think there probably comes a time where we're all in a similar situation.
I never looked for or chased this - it just seemed to happen. I thought that sex with my last partner was good. Damnit this time around my partner and I are just having the greatest time - all over the place!