I cant seem to bring myself to try to get a girlfriend. Im in a serious situation as im 20 year old male and still a virgin disgraceful i realise
Now a lot of you will be thinking thats not a problem, but it is, for me... because i dont want to be one.
Im not INCREDIBLY ugly, but i have other problems which makes me feel less confident (acne on my back to name one of them)
I have female friends, i have no problems making friends... but i feel no girl will ever be interested in me, and this is the most depressing thing ever
i dont know what to do anymore, im mainly just posting this because i got nobody else to tell
Am i incappable of having a relationship?
It's not disgraceful to be an unwilling virgin at 20. There's no race.
Your lack of confidence in yourself is a handicap - if you can feel better about yourself girls will notice it and feel better about you. If you look around you'll see guys who are very far from perfect getting girls - you can do the same.
awwww, its not that big of deal. I think when you do get with someone it will be really special. that would be kinda romantic to be dating with someone then when you get with them to find out they waited and you were there first.
But really dont be so down on yourself. you gota be like positive.