Alright, there's this girl that I go to school with that I'm friends with and I have a really big crush on her. I'm thinking she probably knows I have some feelings for her (some of my other friends figured it out and they aren't even around half the time). I would ask her out, but I'm afraid that it will ruin what we have and I will lose her. What should I do?
Asking a friend on a date
If you do nothing, you'll probably always regret it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
I mean, it would be great to go out with her, but I don't know if it would be worth risking ruining everything we already have
I have been in that situation too many times; even now I am in one. I am actually going for it with this one but she has a BF and we are good friends so not looking that good for me.
However I have been in the same situation and not gone for it. YOU WILL REGRET IT. Not forever but you will always wonder.
Personally I wouldn't waste the chance. If you are good enough friends you will still have a relationship regardless of what happens.
She may say no but its better knowing and that you have not sat on your hands.
Remember, it is better to make the wrong decision than to not make one at all. A quote to live by.
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I think Mark Twain said it best: "Twenty years from now, you will regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did."
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im in this situation right now, we are not super close friends like we see each other every day but we are still friends, and i think im gunna try and hint to her that i like her by commenting her on myspace alot and see how she responds, im afraid to ask because it would be so ackward to be with her after if she says no.