Alright so since i started becoming sexually active when i was 15 i always noticed that i came pretty fast. i could came fast during masturbation if i wanted to and when i had a partner i usually came pretty fast too, unless it was the second time getting off. im seventeen now and have had sex three times. the first time i came pretty fast. the second time i actually lasted fairly long by my standards, and the third time was pretty fast as well. the last two times i had sex i put another condom on and lasted much longer. My question here is what can i do that will guarantee to make me last longer. im not even trying for above average stamina i just want average stamina in bed. its very embarassing to have to stop so soon in sex and put a new condom on. any suggestions would be greatly aprreciated
Possibly Serious Stamina Problem
whats your average time, 30 seconds, 5 minutes, 10 minutes?
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Two condoms at the same time is not a good idea, because they rub against each other and are more likely to break.
You could try the 'stop-and-go' method with masturbation to train yourself to last longer.
Have sex more often. Probably not the best advice, but if you're only having sex every few months then of course it's going to be a big and exciting thing. When you start having sex a couple of times a week (hopefully with the same girl) you'll become a lot more comfortable and used to the experience and as a result will last much longer.
So don't stress, when you actually find a partner who you really want to please you'll perform much better. As for the one nighters; if you suspect you're going to get laid, masturbate beforehand, or like you said, do it twice.
well my average time i would say is a little under 5 minutes, the one time i lasted closer to 15-20 minutes. and no i dont double up on the condoms, i was saying that after i nutted i would switch to a new condom and keep having sex.
Around five minutes is fairly normal for coitus. Extend your love making sessions with more foreplay and build up. Your girl will probably like that better than humping away on top of her for long periods of time anyway.
Just don't shout 50 when you orgasm and everything should be okay. ...I watch to much t.v.
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Hopefully going to be having sex with my girlfriend for the first time, just a bit worried, not her first time, I don't paticularly want her to know its mine..
Anyway, since this sounds like what I'm worried about..
I know it's not long, but I don't know if I'd make 5 minutes if it was fast?!
I mean, when I masturbate, I'm usually ready to come quite quickly.. I usually then stop for a second, and then start, then stop etc. but when I restart I can barely go for any time at all before I have to stop again.
I'm guessing that this means it's pretty darn likey I'm not going to last very long in bed.
I'm definitely going to go with foreplay to try to make her orgasm sooner - that I've done before - but I'm still pretty worried about the actual intercourse..
Do any other guys who have similar masturbation 'times' have any suggestions?
i dont think it's that bad, when i masturbate, i usually last about 5-7 minutes. Last time i had sex was a little longer, but i do agree that foreplay is a good thing, leading up to anything can make it better.
I'm not a faggot, I'm just really, really, really into guys =)
The sensations of masturbation and vaginal sex can be quite different, and guys who are quick at the first may be slow in the second, or vice versa - I don't think one is a good predictor of the other.
All things considered, sex for a guy is so damn good that you are probably not gonna last over 1 minute your first few times. That's the name of the game. That's how your body was designed to respond.
So don't sweat it. Just do your best to give her an orgasm first during your foreplay. Then tell her she looks so hot, so enticing that you "know she will get your rocks off immediately". Then go for the intercourse. She will still be thinking about her own orgasm she just got and the compliment you just paid her. She won't even notice the speed of yours.
Thanks - that sounds like a good idea!
When you get to a point before cumming, pull out, and then do some magic on her by fingering, licking etc... Then your dick will calm down and you can go at it again...