I dont know what happend to me.year 7, in popular grp girls around me good freinds good times.year 8, got sick of popular grp went down a class and had girl freinds with me as well.year 9, same grp no girls. year 10(in now), same grp no girls and no girl freinds i havnt been able to get any freinds or relationships between girls. its not fair. i neeed lady help advice on how to at least get a girl freind:)
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Girls.
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okay, have you noticed how all the guys around you arent single, but you are? its because unlike them, you overthought things. im not saying i know you that well, but i know your problem. the guys around you just instinctively talked to girls, got good at it, found girls and asked them out. you however have been spending a lot of time not building those skills. its never too late though. make as many female friends as possible, talk to them, learn the wrong and right things to say. do it now for the love of crap, dont be one of those loser 20 year olds who cant talk to girls. trust me, do this and youll be fine. there is nothing wrong with you, you just took a wrong turn at some point.
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The thing to remember is relax. Don't be afraid to talk to girls, most girls won't turn down a conversation, so just say anything. If you're at school or wherever, say something sarcastic about the day to break the ice. The thing to keep in mind is to never ever talk to a girl with an agenda, that is, never talk to a girl thinking and obsessing over asking her out, talk to her as you would a friend, just for the sake of simple and friendly communication. If you can become friends with multoiple girls and establish a reputation as a nice guy, your life will be that much easier. It can be nervewracking, I know how you feel, but girls don't bite.
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Girls like spending time and conversating funny guys.
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Ok, ill try tlk to them now and make freinds with as much as i can . Thanks for all your advice and hints.