there is this girl i know and i am really attracted to her physically. Me and her flirt around and talk but we havent done anything physical yet. Is it a good idea to have friends with benefits? Do any of you have people like this that you will just hook up with and there is no commitment? I wanna say somthing to her but i dont kno how to go about doing that....I know that she would probally be into it but idk...
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Friends with benefits
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I had a few FWB before I got married... one of them is still a friend all these years later (minus the benifits).It's ok but it's easy for a lot of emotions to sneak in, even if you weren't planning for them.Be careful, for both your sakes.
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in some instances friends with benifits is okay unless i repeat unless you have actually had a relationship with the person because then it gets messy and old feelings start to occur and then the hate returns and its just a mess otherwise i think its okay
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I have heard of people being involve like that before, I haven't been in something like that though. I have heard that the people like it, but I would have to agree that feelings could creep in and make things more complicated. Just becareful.
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ok. ya i dont see her as like a girlfriend type and she has allready told me that she doesnt see me as a type of guy she would go out with so i dont think the feelings part will be an issue. i am still not sure what exactly to say to her? Should i bring it on directly like so you wanna be fuck buddys lol. not like that but you know what i mean or bring it on a little softer?
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FWB is difficult I must say. As above, it usually starts with something that 'just happens'. From there, if you only want FWB then you must make it extremely clear, and your partner must agree.Then, even though you both agree it's sometimes difficult to keep it that way. You might find your partner becoming attached, and breaking hearts is not fun.I'll also add that no matter how good the SEX might be, it will NEVER be as good as MAKING LOVE. Bottom line, if you want good sex. Fall in love and make love instead. The difference is immeasurable.