My aunt offered me a job at her company and was desperate to find someone to fill in the spot. She is the HR for a mortgage company. I told her that I would take the job. The thing is that this happened 2 years ago and I had quit after the first day of working because the stress load and I felt uncomfortable with the loan officers which were mostly young males who cursed and flirted. Well, I gave her a reply then and there without thinking much about it. Now, I don't want the job and don't feel comfortable there at all. I felt pressured to help her out AND it didn't hurt having a job. Can anyone give advice on how to tell my aunt that I don't want the job (again!)??? I haven't gone in for work, but I'm thinking about calling in sick. My trainer should be there to take care of things if I don't show up.

-help ?