This girl and I are starting to get more involved and I was wondering if it is safe for us to become more invloved sexually. I'm a virgin and she has had sex with 4 other guys. We would plan on using protection but I dont know if its possible for me to contract any STDs. She has also gone to get bloodwork done and they haven't had any problems with that. Do you think that it is safe enough (same with having oral sex)
Question regarding safety
The only sex you should be thinking about is safe sex, that means condoms at all times...no exceptions, be safe not sorry, wearing condoms will eliminate all risks of STD's including HIV.
I have to co-sign with the billy jean. Even if you both were tested and free of all stds its still a good idea to practice safe sex EVERY time. Its good to get in the habit of wearing a condom, discussing your partners sexual history, and always informing yourself on whats out there.