ATTENTION GUYS

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lol,well my neighborhood is being over run woth gangs,so that might explain it.and thats one of the reasons why my family is moving soon.

Some guys are more shallow than others. I don't think there's a generalization that will fit this situation.

For myself, physical attraction is very important but personality will make a girl more or less desirable pretty quickly.

there isn't a kindergardener i know who doesn't all about those things. Thats crap. I have a 12 year old boy, who is more interested in boarding with his mates, and surfing than thinking about some of the stuff on this site. I am sure he will think about sex, and probably masterbate etc, but there is no need for him to know about beastiality, orgies, strange insertions etc at his age and i can't understand why any 12 year old should. He can, and does ask me question - so i guess i am lucky - however im VERY happy that he doesn't even know some of the stuff on here goes on, hes only 12 for gods sake, hes a kid. Like i said if my son were on this board i would kick his arse

I think girls now often know a lot more than boys, because girls read women's magazines that discuss sex in detail but are still considered more respectable than the nearest male equivalent.I don't know how much my daughters know about kinkier stuff, but we've never considered any question off-limits at any age - if they knew enough to ask it, they knew enough to get an answer. They've now reached an age, however, where they consider such stuff unsuitable for our ears.

I have the same relationship with my kids, they can ask me anything, and do LOL some of the stuff makes me laugh, but nothing is off limits in our house and never has been, I really really feel sorry for kids who arn't able to do the same with their parents, however, i still believe that at certain ages, some information about stuff isn't relevant.

i dk who said that about the kindergardener that knows all this stuff. but mayb there is is somehtign going on that SHOULDN:T be going on in his home or somthing. cuz he shouldn't know. when i was that age. A kindergardener is wut like 5 or 6? i knew some things i shouldn;t have... but i was also missinformed. i mean wut i know now as a blow job was a kiss it but i still knew that kissing it felt good.

i'd rather not say. she was in the family tho.

I got to agree with you this site was meant to answer questions to troubled people about what is happening to there body. I don't know about many people, but I started puberty at 10 and started doing stuff at 11 that I didn't know much about, this site would have helped a lot. Plus I grew in neighborhoods where sex, drugs, violence, and gangs was normal day of life. So age to me isn't really apparent is the level of maturity and knowledge.

I want that same relationship in my house with my kids. My oldest is 8 and he has asked very few questions, but I have answered them and hope we have an open communication on everything. I want to give him and the other 2 the correct answers opposed to some of the answers that other kids can give him.

I agree with you ang. Half the 12-13 year old kids at my church have no idea about stuff like that. Literally they don't. I actually had one 13 year old ask me what sex was when she got back from the store because some guy kept messing around with her. Sad.

In reply to:I actually had one 13 year old ask me what sex was when she got back from the store because some guy kept messing around with her. That's sad. It's too bad that there are parents out there who don't bother to teach their kids about these things. How do they expect their kids to protect themselves from people like that if they don't inform them?

I guess for fear they'll go ahead and do it. This generation actually makes me feel pretty ashamed how young kids are having sex. There was something on the Tyra Banks show today that made me sick to my stomach I just had to turn.

It's sad that sex is at the forefront of everything in American culture. If the media and the American public in general are going to be as blunt as they are about sexual issues then the younger generations need to be more informed. Otherwise it's just asking for trouble. You should have seen Oprah today. The subject was "sex in the suburbs". That was more than I ever needed to know lol.

lol omg why is everything about sex today? I'm going to start wearing belts I'm telling ya lol this stuff influences people in the bad way. like that cop who molested that poor girl in her own home. bum!

Oh hun there are way worse things you should be calling that cop, other than "bum" lol.

lol I know right. he needs to be shot

she's trying to be nice and polite........HAHAHAu know she wants to call him a )(&^^(%#)$& BEEP BEEP )&^$#)$&^#%))&#^ BEEP BEEEP #(**&#(*&%$#(& f*ker!! In reply to: he needs to be shot shooting him would be too kind... he NEEDS to be hung by his balls in a tree after taking a rusty saw to his joy stick!

LOL.my thoughts exactly.

lol the sad thing is that the police we're hestitant to believe her since he was a cop until they tapped him calling her.

Well they were idiots. I hate people of authority who take advantage of the authority they have over others.