Hi,My girlfriend and I were having sex on May 14 and I came inside her, only to pull out and find the goddamn condom ripped. Needless to say I about crapped my pants. We always use spermicidal condoms.Well it was Sunday, and the only place open said that their morning-after pill was known to have terrible side affects, often resulting in hospitalization. We waited till Monday and she went to planned parenthood and took it. So, she took the morning after pill a day after it happened, May 15. She thinks her period started about two weeks later, which would place it on the 29th, but this is not for sure, she could be wrong. She is pretty sure it was a Friday or Saturday, but she isn't 100%. Now, she still hasn't had her period. She said she sort of feels like she could have. What are the chances of pregnancy? We used a spermicidal condom, which I hoped would kill some if not all of the sperm, but some of the spermicide was rubbed off the condom during all the action, so I dont know how much, if any, was left on it. It was pretty good and I didn't even feel the thing rip, until I pulled it out and it was all bunched up. With the morning-after pill being 75 to 89 percent effective, and the fact that we used a spermicidal condoma and she had her period around 2 weeks (we think) later, could she be pregnant? We've had sex 3 times since then, each time I have pulled out and checked the condom, all the semen was still inside it. There was one fourth time where I was in her for about 2 seconds without protection. What are the chances she is pregnant? She also took a pregnancy test today (the 28th) and it was negative. Is it just stress or something? I am worried sick, I could throw up...
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Possible Pregnancy
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Given the period later, and the negative pregnancy test, it seems unlikely that she is pregnant. It could be stress. If your girlfriend hasn't eaten much lately, that could also be a reason.
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Greetings,So, its not very possible to be pregnant after she took the pill and then had a period as well?I dont see how she could get pregnant after the other three times, perhaps the fourth by precum but christ that was probably less than 2 seconds.. One of those "Wait this is stupid" moments.Hearing another person say she probably isn't pregnant takes a lot, a LOT of weight off. She purchased birth control as well... after the first week, I suppose we'll have sex, but when those pills run out I am practicing abstinence. This is the 2nd or 3rd time I have had to worry about this shit. Sex is great, dont get me wrong, but I am tired of feeling like I could throw up because I see my entire life, all the hopes and dreams, goin down the drain.
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Well it was Sunday, and the only place open said that their morning-after pill was known to have terrible side affects, often resulting in hospitalization. I can understand someone having a moral issue with contraception, but lying crosses the line. Whoever told you that needs to be yelled at big time.It sounds like the possiblity of pregnancy is very low, but since you already have a relationship with a Planned Parenthood clinic, they will be your best source of information. Don't be shy about contacting them.Has your girlfriend thought about using some other form of contraception? Condoms are good, but they're not nearly as reliable as birth control pills and other methods.
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Well she did contact them, I should have mentioned that.... they told her to take a pregnancy test. She took it, it came back negative, and she called them back and they said she should just be patient and wait for a period. Im still worried as hell. And she does have birth control pills, but like I said, once these run out, thats it... hehe. I still have a lot of years ahead of me, and love isn't all about sex.What are some early symptoms of pregnancy?
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We're not mind readers, and our guesses are not worth more than an actual pregnancy test. If you're really going around the bend, you can try to talk them into giving your girl friend another pregnancy test, or you can buy a test kit at the pharmacy.
Pregnancy does not automatically mean a 20-year commitment. The possibilies are that a pregnancy can be terminated, or a baby can be given up for adoption. This is all rhetorical, though, since it appears that your girlfriend is not pregnant.
Here are some ideas for contraception.
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Hello,OK, so the general consensus is she isn't pregnant? I don't really think its possible, considering the facts...
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That's the general consensus of two people who are not medical professionals.