alright guys well a lot has passed from my last g/f but this is my new situation...i've been with my girl for 7 months...she was a virgin till i took it from her...were both 19...SHES NEVER done anythin else with a guy before me other then kiss...so pretty much i've done it all with her....the thing is ....with my ex and her...when i've had sex with no condom it seems like i happen to get a itchness on my penis..and it also gets really red and can swell a bit..i have found that after me and my ex broke up...it went away...and i also use dove sensitive skin soap..it helps me a lot..but now that me and my new girl started have sex this problem has returned...im confused....also during the break after it went away i went back to regular soap but i just bought the sensitive soap today...im also not circumsized if that means anything...please guys help me out!
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Like an irritation?
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If you're not using a condom I hope you're using some other reliable method of contraception.
It sounds like an allergy to something in vaginal secretions. Allergies can be desensitised, but it's a longish process because they first need to find out exactly what you are allergic to.
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Hey bud, is that bit of swelling your foreskin? If so, that can be a common reaction for us uncut guys - the penetration and friction can create a bit of swelling. As long as it goes away there is nothing to worry about there. As to the itching, that could be a reaction to vaginal fluids. While it may be frustrating a bit there doesn't seem to be any reason for worrying - especially since this has happened with both of your partners, sounds like your penis may be sensitive. At any rate, using that soap and cleaning up good afterwards will probably help. Maybe others will suggest something else.
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yea i've already got condoms...yea it definately seems to be a allergic reaction...it only swells if i dont attend to it..but aslong as i do it doesnt get worse...
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If it happened after having sex when not using a condom, it could be a yeast infection - this may thrive beneath the 'skin. Simple over the counter anti-fungal cream will probably cure it.If it occurs when you use a latex condom, then you should try a non latex condom - these are avalable for both male and female.
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so i could have a yeast infection??it feels more like a allergic problem...i also went down on her and i havent gotten sick on my throat or anything..she was clean down there.
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A yeast infection doesn't come and go. You must use medication to get rid of it. If you had this problem only after sex with the 2 girls-and not in between--I highly doubt it is a yeast infection. It'smore likely an allergy.
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yea guys just to let u guys know its already gone away all of it..so its definately a allergic reaction..i didnt get it luckily when i used a condom..so it seems to be like a direct contact with the secretion from the vagina..is this normal for us un cut guys?
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I doubt it has anything to do with being uncut. Have you tried washing real well after sex? It would suck to have to use condoms forever.
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When you wear a condom, does your foreskin remain in place over your knob during insertion or do you pull it right back so that it stays retracted when your having sex?Also, is there a possibility that your foreskin is a bit tight. With unprotected sex, a snug foreskin being constantly forced to and fro will produce trauma on the inside lining.I'm very tight and when someone has tried to force my foreskin back, the resulting trauma to the tip and inside of my foreskin has hurt for several days after. I don't know if I'd say it itched, but the discomfort caused me to constantly try to rearrange my foreskin so that it was in a more comfortable position.
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The problem was that he got the irritation when he didn't use a condom.