i know a lot of people may be scared to lose their virginity, but they eventually get over their fear and do it anyway... however, i on the otherhand am afraid that i will never get over my fear... my fears seem to result to the possibility of me remaining a virgin for the rest of my life! i am just afraid of the consequences that i will have to face if something goes wrong... and i know that i will not know how it is until i try it (sex), but i just don't want to be pregnant at such a young age... i mean i have my whole life ahead of me?at the same time, though, i have been together with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, and having sex with him is something that i do want... i am just scared and i do not know how to get over this fear of mine?thanks
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Losing virginity
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it sounds like you're not ready for sex, if you have this great fear of something going wrong or getting pregnant at a young age then you're not ready, just because you've been with your boyfriend for a year doesn't mean that you have to have sex now, you'll know when the time is ready, don't be in such a rush to lose it
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but is it not normal to worry? i would think something is "wrong" if the two people in the relationship had no concerns before having sex?
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yeah its very normal, i'm a guy and i have a bit of fear of becoming a father at such a young age... but i really dont care at the same time cause it'll piss off my parents. so yeah just like amanda said just chill and give it time talk to your boyfriend about sex before you go into anything. If my gf and i are at that point in our relationship where one of us wants to but their scared, then the best thing would be for one of us to comfront one another.