To make a long story short, I ended up fucking this girl last night. I say fucking because that is exactly what it was. Meaningless sex. Just mutual pleasure. I'm fairly new to sex. I've only had it about 3 times - this account being the third. So she basically kept telling me to fuck her. I'm embarrassed to say, that I can't stay in the hole. Now, she was a fairly big girl. Does that have anything to do with it, or was I just not hard enough or was my penis not long enough? It's pretty wide I've been told. I think it is about 5 inches long. Is that average or below average? What should I do if its not hard enough?
Not Hard Enough?
First of all, I hope you wore a condom. Five inches is on the shorter side, but it will still work fine. You just have to keep your strokes shorter.
Did her vagina seem to be rather loose?
I think your penis size is fine. Really... I know some guys with huge dicks that can't seem to get it into the hole and keep it there without it coming out many times. The size of your dick is fine. Girth is way better than length too. Your size is more normal than most men would like to admit.
Not staying totally hard happens to us guys sometimes. there are many factors involved. being only your third time could factor into it too. Perhaps the position you were in wasn't giving you the angle you need and you kept in. As long as you both came and had fun and it felt good. then nothing else matters.
most of us guys have had a larger partner in our past. I remember my brother telling me when I was like 12 that he would rather have sex with a big girl than to have to jack off by himself......
Just relax, wear that condom and who cares as long as you both had fun... That's all that matters ...