I tried and tried and tried but I can't seem to get to orgasm standing and masturbating. I tried in the shower and at my bed but nothing. I get erected and one time I felt really close but didn't make it. I can get to orgasm if I stop standing and lay down and finish it off. Any help on what I can do to masturbate standing and get to an orgasm? I hear it's more intence when you do it standing.
How can I masturbate standing up?
I don't know that it's that much more intense that it's worth a lot of trouble. All I can suggest is that if you never masturbate lying down, at some point it's going to work.
Have you tried lube?
That could help,
but really it seems like it wouldn't make much of a difference,
when you do have sex, it will probably be lying down.
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When you're laying down, you're relaxed. Standing up you're more rigid or tense and less relaxed. Plus if you're in the shower you have that whole feeling of slipping and cracking your skull open.
I've come this far, I ain't turning back.
It's not hard going all the way if standing up.
Just do it lying down/sitting until you're close, then stand up and finish.
If that doesn't work, do it as usual until you're even closer, then stand up and finish! :wink:
If you've got used to it, it's also probably one of those things that get easier to do once you get used to it.
It is more intense, or I think so. It almost makes me want to fall down. lol. Yeah, try lube it'll probably help.
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