Okay i'm young (13) but i've had a serious relationship with a boy for 6months and we never had sex but we did other junk anddd for some reason he couldnt get me to an orgasm?? is there something wrong with me?? he tried to finger me and eat me out but NOTHING I mean I got no pleasure out of it! and I dont get wet outside the hole either really is that normal?? ahh help me :frowning:
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Is something wrong with me?!?!?!?!?!?
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It may be that your body is just not quite ready for orgasms yet.
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thort 2 self * you no ur a looser when a 13yr old is getting more action than u...hmmm*
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well i guess im a loser to and maby ur boyfriend is the problem if u tell him how to pleasure u he will probably listen and it will be good 4 both of u just remember he dosnt no where u like it so u have to tell him boys cant read ur mind(well i cant atleast)o yea and dont be nearvous well at least thats what every1 says
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Damn! This made me depressed lol
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Lol if you think it made you depressed think about how my boyfriend felt! he was like crying! haha but to the second post i'm pretty sure i'm old enough cause A. I can give myself an orgasm and B. I hit puberty at 9 but me and him are broken up now so maybe it was his fault and he was doing everything wrong..I dont know..
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A lot of women have trouble having an orgasm. I was having orgasms on my own since I was in elementary school, but I didn't experience one through sexual things with a guy until I was almost 20. Don't stress yourself out too much, it's normal, and in time it will happen.
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You didn't break up because of this orgasm business, did ya?
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Nah I dont know why we broke up? he broke up with me for another girl and probably cause I wouldnt have sex with him..but I wasnt ready so eff him
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Good on ya girl. If someones going to dump you for that reason then they're not worth having and are best left to whatever scoundrel will have them.As for the original problem, if you know what you like and can enjoy an orgasm yourself, communicate this to your partner. Don't be afraid to give them a few instructions, quite honestly most guys would like a few pointers on how to get their partners off.
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damn i am 13 and personaly if i couldnt get my girl to feel good idk what id do id be like rele unconfident and shit but yeah ive had a seriouse relationship to almost 6 months but she moved away and had to break my heart bc i was breakin hers bc she loved me so much and distance issues ... what was i talkin bout again ohh yeah well i dont think enythings wrong prolly just not sensitive enough or shit like that , p.s. good luck with your boyfriend sweetie
