to get to the point quickly ive been having problems with my mom. my family consists of my parents, my little brother and me. my bro and my dad are pretty much average (if there is such a thing for familys) but my mom is insane. shes a hardcore cathlic, is highly paranoid, and has almost no trust in me, and overprotective. since i was little my mom has been really paranoid and overprotective. lately shes been a little less overprotective partially b/c my dad has talked to he about it and b/c ive becomea little more resistant
the hardcore cathlic thing is really pissing me off lately. all she talks about how it is important to lead a good, cathlic life. she is constantly reading religious articles to me ant telling me to pray. the thing is i dont believe in any of that stuff. my beliefs are totally different and i dont want to tell her b/c i really cant predict what would happen if i did.
my mom also has a thing against my g/f and my social life in general. whenever im out shes always worrying that im doing something wrong and wants to check up on me (i know this b/c my bro tells me what she has said). and she also hates the fact i have a gf. she tries to prevent us from hanging out b/c she thinks we might be doing something "immoral." a few days ago she started complaining b/c she saw us kissing (this really pisses me off b/c she was spying on us) and she also complais that we spend to much time in my room and we might be "tempted" to do something wrong.
she also hates a lot of tv and a lot of my music b/c it promotes "innaprpriate things" and she tries to control it (like by removing the power cord for the tv) basically shes trying to control my life.
so im asking does anyone have any advice. i dont want to live with her trying to control me. unfortuntly talking or arguing doesnt work b/c her views are always right. and im somewhat scared of what wouldhappen if i tell her my real views and beliefs.