Finnaly got the courage

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to ask out a girl ive known for a while and we are going to the movies this friday, this is pretty exciting for me since its my first date

Oh, great news! What movie are ya going to see?

click, she wanted to see it and i did't tell her but i saw it alreadybtw nice 1 zidane

congrats! can i just offer some advice?
1. if the movie sucks, she'll get bored. this is an opportunity to flirt playfully. poke her, maybe throw popcorn at her ( sounds idiotic but it works ) tickle her ( dont come on too strong ) which leads to touching, which leads to kissin
2. if the movie is good, she'll be in a good mood afterwards, which is when you get kissed!

anyway congrats, you'll do great.

Congrats! I hope you guys have fun.

Tease, poke, tickle, joke, laugh. Those are all great peices of advice. Have you figured out if she's the kind of girl that kisses on the first date? I generally try to go in for the kiss on the first date just so she knows I won't stand for the friends ladder.

Great news! Congratulations!

yay 4 u!i remember my 1st date, i was soooo nervis my friend had 2 push me outa the car....good times, a shame it didnt work out.

im pretty sure thats she is shy, after the movie im gunna take her to eat somewhere, but what do i do at the end, i wana show thats its a date, what do i say?

You could kiss her. :smile:

lets say im at her door, should i try to do it fast?, because i have bad luck and i could miss or hit her with my head, and lets say i do kiss her on the cheek, what do i say after?

also where do u go after the first date? the problem is that after our first date she is going on vacation for 2 weeks.

I wouldn't go in for the kiss fast.Tell her that you had a good time and you'd love to take her out again sometime. If she agrees or shows positive signals about going on a second date, that's a sign that a kiss is not out of the question. Smile, lean in just a little bit, say "I guess this is good night", slowly lean in a little more. If she doesn't withdraw at all, lean in right near her lips. You can figure it out from there.

I can't. Please, go on...

You shouldn't do it so fast that you head-butt her unconscious, but not so slowly that she's inside putting on her pyjama while you're thinking what to do. Just do it, halos. Then say something like "Goodnight, I had a great time. When can we meet again?".

lol. Then she grows 7 inch teeth and bites your head off.

lol ok i just dont wana pull a zidane

I was going through some files on my computer and came across something that may come in handy. I have a bunch of stuff like this just sitting on my computer in case someone might need help.Assuming you've built attraction and rapport with the girl, comfortably violate her personal space, i.e. get close to her face to face.Tell her you like her earrings or ears and touch them or the lobe. Begin outlining the contour of her ear and tell her how much you like her ear. When you've done two laps, begin tracing the contour of her face: move to "safer" areas, such as her jawline, chin, then up around her forehead. Tell her how much you admire them, i.e. pace what you see.If she lets you do this, you're pretty much in and you can really push the envelope. Move your finger down the bridge of her nose until you get to her lips. Outline her lips. Tell them how soft the feel (don't tell her how you'd like to kiss them, keep the tension going).When you're get done with her lips, make a half circle up to her eyebrows and trace her eyebrows. This will cause her to close her eyes. Go in for the kiss.Warning though, this routine can be a little tricky because you want to get a good circling rhythm and you don't want to "bump" into anything. I suggest practicing on finding a rhythm on your own face first.The cool thing about this routine is that once you begin outlining the contour of her face, if she doesn't pull back, she's just waiting--expecting--you to kiss her. So you can kiss her at any time.

omg. where the hell are you? I want that kiss! my ex was never that romantic.

America. lol. Sounds like you just need to find yourself a hopeless romantic turned just romantic.