I really want to stop wanting someone. I dont mean to say theres a specific person or anything. There is noone I would consider asking out or anything of the sort, nor do I want a girlfriend as such. I really genuinely want to stay alone for the moment, the thought of having a girlfriend nigh on horrifies me. But daily I still yeard to have someone with me, to hold and talk to in some emotional manner. It really gets me down. I want to be able to just continue as I am without the desire for some sort of emotional attatchment but its really hard getting rid of those feelings. I think if I didnt feel I needed someone like that I would be less lonely. I dont know what to do :scream_cat:
Wanting someone makes me depressed
i really dont know what to tell you here..its very confusing to me..so are you saying you DO want a gf or you DONT??? sorry but im confused </font color>
*~I don't mind living in a man's world..As long as I can be a woman in it!~* -Marilyn
its human nature dude. loneliness is something everyone feels, and i mean, wanting to not want a girlfriend is irrational...just go out, meet people, and dont go all emo on me lol. youll be fine.
Hey man from what I can understand, atleast your not wanting a certain someone. Personal experience tells me its worse then wanting just any girl. My friend has a similar situation where as he really wants a girlfriend and feels slightly depressed. But I was in love with this chick for about 3 1/2 years, where as she does not like me. That feeling is so much worse. But hey I'm not telling you to give up your hope on getting a girlfriend just try to be a little cheerful, many poeple go through what you do.