Ok, well...the girl I like has invited me and another lady friend over to her house tomorrow to hang out and go to the public pool, I like her and she knows I like her...so, I was wondering do yall have any tips on what I could do to like...not get hard or conceal it in front of her? Cuz she is really anxious to see me in the pool (I have no idea why) but she's been saying she really wants to go swimming with me and is making a big deal about it...so i don't wanna make a fool of myself. Anything? Thanks, much appriciated.
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Going to the pool with 2 girls tomorrow.
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Just hope that the water is cold. But seriously, if you do get hard, don't let her see it or let it touch her and keep it underwater until it goes away. If you can, you could buy some tight briefs and wear those under your bathing suit.
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Be proud of your thing and if she wants you in a pool than get in there and do your thing. If she invited you she problaly wants you to s=ask her out there and then.
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I wonder if she wants to see you in the pool because she is hoping to see it?
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Be proud of what you have and if it gets stiff, who cares just don't leave the pool in that condition. She probably wants to see you half naked, let the good times roll.
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I think she probably wants to go swimming with you so she can see your body. At least the upper half of it anyway. A guy with a nice body will notice that it's easier to find a girlfriend at the beach or the pool than most places.
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If it gets hard, just stay in the water, don't say you have to go to the washroom or something, it'll just draw more attention to yourself. Also if you like her, maybe if you 2 are alone you could ask her to do this again or go out or something. Good luck.
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The best way to get rid of one is breath out 3 times. It sometimes works for me.
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Ask her advice/opinions on shit and just compliment her. Just tease around and shit.
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Shit if it was me Id be happy to show it off haha it would increase my chances of gettin action.
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i used to be self concious about getting the spontaneous or unwanted boner.now, if i get a boner and a girl notices it, so be it. i usually just play it off. maybe you can point out a hot girl or something in the distance.best of all is when you catch their hint that they think youre hard because of them. then it's fun to play the dont-flatter-yourself card. maybe you had a late morning wood. maybe the college girl next to you brushed against you. but this woman in front of you has the nerve to think youre hard because of her? haha have fun with it.if it's brought to attention, just make it clear that you didn't know she was so uncomfortable around natural male phenomenon or maybe a penis in general.bust her balls.
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quote] The best way to get rid of one is breath out 3 times. It sometimes works for me. lol. I wish that worked for me.
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actually concentrating on taking real deep breathes seem to work for me. why? i have no idea but it does. well it sounds to me like she wants to check out your body brotha! If things go well maybe it would be a good time to ask her out if you want to.
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Have you gone there yet? Its been 6 days and you said you were going tommorow (by that I mean the 12th). So I'm guessing this is now an educational discussion?Ok. I would just act as if it wasnt there/ showing. If she stares just caugh or say ahem. But like the others have said, she may want to see you in only swim wear.
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I have to concentrate for about 20 seconds before it starts to go away. It would be great to get it to go away after 3 deep breaths though.