Well, I made a mistake going with my friend to go see her mom in the Nursing home, without my Mother's permission. So she calls my Girlfriend thinking that I am with her, then tells my Girlfriend's mom that I am out having Sex with another girl. What do I do? How can I earn my Girlfriend trust and her mom's also? Because her mom won't talk to me and accept my "Forgiveness" and also I did nothing to the girl I went with to the Nursing home, I wouldn't throw a perfect relationship, AND IT IS, down the drain for some 13 year old girl when I am 16(Weird huh? The girl is like my little sister to me) But my mom is accusing me of having sex with this girl, and she told my girlfriends mom that I had sex and that my friends mom is dead. Can someone please help me out, I mean is there any way I can get my Girlfriend's mom's trust back? My girlfriend believes me, but at the same time she doesn't know what to believe...... Please help.
Mom in way?
All you can really do is try to explain what happened. Your mum shouldn't have jumped to conclusions like that, tyr talking to her and if you get her to believe you then maybe she would apologise to your girlfriends mum for causing all this trouble.
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I have explained what happened and its insane to hear what my mom says. She like, you had a sex with that girl and you know it! And my Girlfriends mom won't even listen to me. And I haven't had sex with my best friend! Its extremely stupid.
If you didn't have sex with the 13 year old then look your girlfriend's mom in the eye and tell her the truth. Sit down with her one day and tell her the truth. Thats the only thing you can really do.
Why does she think you had sex with her exactly? What lead up to this?
Nothing has to 'lead up to it'. Let me ask you.. what kind of mother jumps to THAT kind of conclusion...? unless she was purposely trying to cause malicious damage to your relationship with your girlfriend and her mother... Eek!
Talk to your girlfriend's mum, and tell her straight forwardly that no sex took place, and you went to visit the nursing home that your friend's mum lived in. There's no need to be nervous, because you have nothing to lie about. Or maybe you could proove to your girlfriend's mum that your friends mum is in fact alive and kicking.
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It's all about Narcissists, and your mother could be one of 'em. I only have that thought, because that is exactly what they do. They lie to everybody behind your back and get you in deep trouble, like where you are now.
Well, she broke up with me, but I understood where she was coming from.
Her exact words:
You know all the S**t that is going on, I don't know what to believe, I am so confused and it is just starting to get to me. I know you didn't do anything with that girl, but my mom and your mom keep bringing it up and it is really starting to hurt, but I know you didn't have sex with that girl. I think it will be best if we were friends til everything cooled down.....
Well.... when everything cools down, I will do anything in my power to get you back.
Is this a true break up or is she just wanting to date another guy?
From reading that hon i don't see why you think she would want another guy, i think she is really hurt, and i can understand why if people are talking about it, let her know how you feel, give her some space and if its meant to be it will be again. </font color>
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I mean, I know she is hurt and all, but at the same time, I am hurt myself, should I just stay in my room and cope or what? I really cared for this girl, and she cared for me. And my mom had the nerve to say, "Oh its just puppy love....." I have to say it, this girl really flipped my life around, she really saved me from a lot of bad things. To answer Leon's question, my mom and her mom came up with the "Sex" thing, because I was out with another girl, they think that I am some whore or something sorry to say. I hurts to hear my own mother say that. And I think that she is just out to feed off someones hurt.
Hmm... I think that a break up is a break up. There are always different circumstances, reasons, feelings, etc. Maybe you should confront your ex-girlfriend with this question:
'If you KNOW that I didn't have sex, then why wont you get through this part of our relationship with me rather than away from me?'
That will help you know one (or more) of three things. 1)She is hurt really, really bad and confused about who to believe. 2)She can't answer the question, and doubts her decision of breaking up. 3)She actually thinks that you did have sex with the other girl.
Like AngelWitch said, "If its meant to be it will be again."
Oh for a lawyer friend here. Two women have slandered you, and in consequence you have suffered serious damage. It would be worth a lot of money if you sued.
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wow thats bad. you have the right to be pssed at your mom and treat her like a jackass. seriously nobody should make up something like that.
but what i expect here is a little deeper. your mom might hate your gf (or the fact you have one) and did this intentionally so you would eventually break up.
but seriosly dont put up with shit like that from anyone. show your mom ur willing to fight back.
Hmm, angry child.
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I have shown my Mom that I can fight back, and I have done nothing for her this past week or so. I sorry to say, but my mom is a Bi*** and I can't help but to say this too, but I really hate her. My GF at the time, came over to the house, and was extremely nice to my Mom. My Mom says she reminds her of my Aunt, and my Aunt is like the nicest women in the world! What gets me is she called her White Trash and cussed her out, and said a bunch of stuff to her, and this was after the break-up, when she cussed her out.
Your girlfriend acted a little fake there. Just tell your mom to get out of your love life or you won't support her when she is dieing.
"This is not my life
It's just a fond farewell to a friend-"
>Your girlfriend acted a little fake there. Just tell your mom to get out of your love life or you won't support her when she is dieing.
or that you'll put her in a retirement home. LOL