Hi, me again..I'm not that good with girls, (i'm not that talkative) I don't know how to start a conversation up with girls, or keep it going, ect. But, I want to have sex/have a girlfriend, what should I do?
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I'm not sure where to put this, but its about sex
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The Relationships Forum (under life and Health) would be a better bet; you'll get a better response there. In fact, unless you're trying to form a relationship with your right hand, this is exactly the wrong forum.
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Ok.... 'lil help ?
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Ask her about herself, what she likes and dislikes, hopes and dreams, what happened in her day; and listen attentively, nodding your head at appropriate places and making appropriate comments. If she stops, ask a question about something in what she has just said. Add bits about you, but let her dominate the conversation.
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Ok, I got that part....what should I say for an oppening line BEFORE talking about all that??
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There are a few steps you need to go through before getting a girlfriend and having sex. First you need to meet a girl.
Stand up straight. Smile in a friendly way. Look her in the eye. Say "Hi". Then there must be something you have in common. Think about it ahead of time and start taling about it. ("Don't you think our algebra teacher is kind of wierd" / "How about those Red Sox" / etc. If you've listened to the things people talk about when they first meet, you'll realize that it's nothing too brilliant or deep. It's just very simple smalltalk.
The more you do it, the easier it gets. You just have to keep pushing yourself. Even if it doesn't go well the first few times, it will become more and more not a big nervous deal. The more you're able to act confident, the better your chances will be.
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Sorry if it sounded like " I just wanna rail some chick "...I'd like to meet somone then progress...