15 and cant orgasim?!

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i need some help here...im 15 and havent ever had a orgasim ive masterbated many times before but nothing happens..when i do i keep a boner buti dont feel like im getting anywhere. ive waken up plenty times before and had my boxers wet but ive never felt anything. im confused/frusrated please help

wow i have the same problem only im female it sucks doesnt it i really wish there was some way to help u ... maybe u should just keep goin i reaf somewhere that if u keep stimulating the better it feels apparently for guys its suposed to take 15mins so goodluck and i hope something happens

Well, it sounds like a mental issue, and not a physical problem, as since you are getting wet dreams, you are physically capable of ejaculation. You kind of need to be 'into it', and turn yourself on to orgasm. Pay attention to the feelings, and what area of your penis is most sensitive to touch and focus on those areas. For most guys, the head of the penis, and the underside of the penis, just beneath the head are the most sensitive. If you focus on rubbing those areas, it should bring about orgasm faster. How long are you masturbating for, before giving up?Does it feel good at all to you?

well i have tried masterbating for like 10-15min but its just i feel like im not getting anywhere

You may be to young still. Everyone grows differently. It can be a pain at times though because I have friends who look like their still 10 or 11 but their really 16.

it might help if you use lube so if you can get your hands on it use the vasiline jelly stuff(but not the stuff for colds the real jelly stuff) or lotion at first i couldnt ethier but i lube and boom

He's not too young, as orgasm can be reached at any age. Early orgasms before puberty are dry with nothing ejaculated, but there is still an orgasm. Besides, he can ejaculate already since he's getting wet dreams. I think maybe you're not masturbating long enough, and maybe not concentrating enough. Think of something that turns you on as you masturbate. Some guys take longer to reach orgasm, and 10-15 minutes may not be enough. Keep going, try different grips and positions, be sure to focus on rubbing the underside of your penis just below the head. Are you circumcised, or uncut?

i am circumsized

Have you tried masturbating with lube? I'm circumcised too, and I sometimes find it more comfortable and pleasurable to use lube while masturbating. Or if you're currently using lube, try it without - switch what you're doing and try different things until it feels the best.

lol i can orgasm in about 5 min if i realy try lol

yea if you have never orgasmed before just be ready because it is going to take sometime, i remember the first time i did it took me probably a good hour, now it takes me 5 minutes or less if i really want :wink: