My best buddy has lost everything he owned playing poker this includes house, car, clothing etc etc..he is a gay guy and wants to come and live with me, I know he likes me and i am unsure what to do. If I don't put him up he will be destitute and he is wearing rags at present in some crummy room. My problem is that i feel heart sorry for him lefy naked and homeless but I think he wants more..
As a friend you should give him the support that he needs. Give him a room, help him get back on his feet. Whether he has feelings for you or not shouldn't be an issue with this, a lot of the times many men feel that gay associates have crushes on them but its usually just in their heads.
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If this guy lost a house and car etc.. to poker, then he is going to be a mooching loser until he realizes his addiction and gets out of the pattern. If you take him in and he maintains this gambling addiction, you will lose him as a friend.