I'm 21 years old guy and very unsexually experienced. I have had a girlfriend and we used to dry hump and feel each other up. But we never had sex. The other night I was out with some friends and I was drinking. I ended up getting trashed, and throwing up. I do regret this just because I find it against my morals But even more so, even though I do not have a girlfrined, but I still like this other girl,Kerry, I kissed this other girl. I do remember this. But beyond that I do not remeber anything. She tells me that we did it, and I it would of been my first time. Now, I regret very much if that is the case. And I know being drunk is no excuse. But did I necessary loose my virginity when my judgement was so impaired, and especially since I regret it??
> But did I necessary loose my virginity when my judgement was so impaired, and especially since I regret it?
Since "virginity" has no definite meaning, what it means is up to you. (You're asking a philosophical question.)
<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK
Well... She could be lying :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
Anyways, If you dont want to count it as losing your virginity, you dont have to I guess. U didnt remember it anyway, so you still didn't 'experience' it.
Kitten is absolutely right....in the situation you're describing you really weren't "there". When you find the person you want to be your first, you will remember every second of it.