Slipping up the ass

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My girlfriend and I had a conversation about why guys find the ass so fascinating and all I could tell her was the same for anything that didn't involve what most call "meat and potato" sex: guys fantasize about doing what they see in porn. Cumming on a girl's face, doing her in the ass, whatever, it's all about living out fantasies. Just don't be too surprised if he someday wants to exchange that finger for his dick. That too can be quite pleasureable if done correctly.

well in a drunken fumble he tried it and i got a shock so we didn't continue it, but yeah i suppose i can see the pleasure. Kind of! Bit like Marmite i suppose - gotta try it to know, love it or hate it!

as long as you're good with it.

I like to do the same thing if the lass likes it

The day when my boyfriend slipped his finger in my _other_ hole was the first :smile: (and only, so far :frowning:) time I got off from oral.

poor you. before i never used to get off from oral - like ever. Then i met my Spaniard.....god is the boy talented, i dont know what it is but he finishes me off every time!!

If you enjoyed it, why was that the only time? I would think you'd let him know and he'd do it all the time...and I'm curious as well about why you don't tell him what he needs to do so you'll always get off from the oral experience...You don't need to make him feel inadequate...just tell him what you want him to do when he's down there. Believe me...guys enjoy a woman who tells them when they're in the right spot!

Oh no, he's been doing that ever since, it's just that \_I\_ haven't been able to climax :frowning:. And I do tell him what I want, it just never works somehow.
/Edit - I should have typed 'The day he did it for the first time' in my previous post/

Hmmmm....what kind of technique does he have? I've found that there really is an art to it and all women are different....seems as if each vagina is as individual as fingerprints. To tell the truth, when guys are young they watch porn and every male in the film can lap all over the woman's pussy and they always cum and cum loudly and usually more than once. What young guys don't realize--probably because their dicks are hard and all the blood has left their brains --is that porn stars have multiple takes and the orgasms are rarely genuine. Still, until we have the opportunity to get near a woman's pussy we have no practice. Sad, but so obviously true!

normal to me

I didn't really get what you're asking. I'd say he's pretty good, just inexperienced.

I guess what I'm asking is: what does he do when he goes down on you? Here's the technique I like to use: 1) I make it a point to finger my girl before I ever go down on her, that way her pussy is already sensitive because of the increased bloodflow; 2) when I get my face down between her legs I like to kiss and lick on her thighs--closer and closer to the pussy; 3) once I feel the time is right, I begin by gently running my tongue up and down her outer labia, and then work my way in; 4) I'll lick her inner labia--up and around--and tongue her hole occasionally while I'm doing it; it's VERY important not to go immediately for the clit--I make it a point to reserve that until later; 5) I will lick and suck on her inner labia as I continue to lick up and around the lips, never going for the clit; 6) after many minutes of "teasing" if you will--I prefer to think of it as "priming", then and only then, I'll go for the clit and hit it hard with my tongue.I'm sure every woman is different, but I've found my girl prefers it side-to-side with adequate tongue pressure, but not too much. Finally, when I can tell she's getting ready to pop, I press my thumb to the spot between her vaginal opening and her anus and bear down a little harder with my tongue. I can't say what someone else might do with this information, but it's absolutely worked for me!

good god that sounded too good! and very familiar....can't wait to see him again - only a week my friends - only a week!

LOL! I hope I helped. I think the key is taking your time in this...something younger men can have difficulty with. As I said, I like to finger my girl first, then go down on her...and by the time I slide my dick inside her, it usually doesn't take too long before I fell her pussy tightening around me...to the point I'm afraid that someday she's going to keep my dick when I pull away!