thanx 4 ur advice every1im gonna leave it for now as ive been feeling pretty good lately. didnt end up going to the doctors as i desided to work my ass off to get through all the work i mised rather then get a doctors cert and put it off till later.anyway, im going away for afe days on thursday so no time really. ill think bout this and might actually do sumthing bout it if it gets 2 bad but ill cope for now. cheers
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Life sucks
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Okay, maybe Cute wants to cut out of the ocnversation, but I just wanted to say that Binthere, Angel and everyone, you're saying some smart stuff.Cute says "i dont wanna go 2 councilling, i dont wanna share my privit shit with a stranger i find that weird." It is SOOO weird, but having to explain yourself in a way you wouldnt say it to friend or family meber is the whole trick to it, loike in explaining it to some doctor, you understand it better yourself. That's been my experience in therapy, it's not that the doctor tells me stuff about myself, but I find myself figuring stuff out on my own while I talk it through.I don't really know much about like clinical depression and stuff, and I don't know how I feel about behavior drugs, but, seriously, just sitting down and talking to a therapist for a while can be really, really, useful. I've gone off and on for four years (since my mom died) and it's just helped me figure out my shit.
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Hey, thanks for the vote of confidence, but I'm just passing on my own life experiences. It's funny...I heard my mother tell me things soooo many times and I just didn't think she understood, but years later I reflected back and realized that she knew EXACTLY what she was talking about--the benefit of experience, I guess.At any rate, I did go to therapy when my late girlfriend died and you're absolutely correct: being able to lay it all out for someone who is only interested in sifting through what you say, finding out what's wrong with you and pointing you in the right direction for self-help is well worth the effort expended.I'm digging your posts, my friend
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life does suck i feel like everyone is better than me no matter what like im the uglyest person and i know tons of people hate me because in 6th grade i anoyed everyone because i had no friends alot of nights i fall asleep crying and spending hours wondering the things that happen to me
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Wow, man, I don't know how to respond to that, but as stupid as it sounds, you CAn and DO make changes for yourself. Like you're not stuck being this miserable person, you change. Things happen-- good and bad-- and make you into someone who can handle shit and be strong despite being depressed. Changes happen.
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Why don't you take a few minutes one day and make a list of all the good things about yourself and the things you don't like. Oh, and BE HONEST! Don't write down anything that's someone else's thought or perception of you--meaning something that may have been said ABOUT you--only write down those things you personally feel about yourself. Once you have that list, make a serious effort to internalize all those things that are good, and then figure out what you can do about those things you consider negative. For instance: I like to consider myself an excellent listener and my nose is a little larger than I'd like. Well, the first thing I can and have turned into a definite asset in my life and the second, short of surgery that would change WHO I am, is something I can't do anything about.You need to get happy with you...because you're going to be together for a long time
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Awh, I know how you feel, just one day you could careless about anyone or anything, you could just sit down and cry non stop. I cut, and it makes me feel worse, but yet it makes me feel better, but then after the next day, when i'm fine i have to look down at my arms and look at the pain I just did to myself and it starts all over again Good luck with that.
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ok, im "sad" again.
life is so shitty. everythings shit. well it seems that way anyway.
it dosnt matter that anything good may have happened, everything feels shite.
i passes my drivers licence today, and posted my University application. im convinced i wont get in, it dosnt matter what every1 keeps telling me or how well i do at school, im not gonna get in cuz thats how my life works. then other ppl in my year will get into the course i wanna do and ill have to do a certificate for a year b4 im able 2 do that course and will b a year behind and ill be so shamed.
my sister and mum r fighting again and im expected to b the 1 to comfort them both and deal with everything else as well as them screaming at each other and my mum being upset. my life is such a shit hole. all i cant think of when thyre screaming is id rather pick up one of those knifes and slit my thorat infront of them then deal with their shit.
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Seems like you think too low of yourself and expect too much of yourself.