Thank you. I can't wait to get some privacy with him and try it all out (we both live with our parents).
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BJ ideas
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Glad to be of assistance. Oh, and one more thing: be sure your finger is properly lubed when you do it, otherwise you might be using more force than is necessary to get in as--unless he knows you're going to do it--he won't be expecting it. If you're in a situation where you both can be naked, you might try lubing up with your own juices while blowing him--either knowing you're rubbing yourself or seeing you rub yourself will likely double his arousal...then when you give him the finger (so to speak) he'll hit the ceiling.And I forgot to answer your question about ice in the mouth. I can't speak for other guys, but to me "cold" equates to "shrinkage". Personally, there is (almost) nothing so pleasant to me as when the head of my cock reaches the warm spot in the back of a woman's mouth; it's really like entering another world. The mouth may be warm, but the back of the mouth toward the throat seems to be about 20 degrees warmer....but maybe that's just my interpretation
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Sorry to be reviving a *relatively* old thread. Just wanted to tell you how that thing went for me.
I did get into his butt without much trouble, but I don't know if I hit the prostate. I did hear him gasp (hope, it was not with pain :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: - I suppose he would have told me). I didn't feel any 'chestnut-shaped' area, so I just massaged the zone that felt firmer than the rest... Was that it? -
My gf was having an ice cream and thought it was a fun idea to give me a bj. It felt strange but it was too cold for me :grin: but its fun to try.
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Likely you got it. If he's lying on his back you'll have to crook your finger "up" toward his belly to hit it, again, 2-3 inches in. If he's on top of you in a 69 (always recommended by me, personally), you'll have to crook your finger down, obviously. It probably shocked him the first time, but I guarantee if he hasn't said anything about it, he will. You may want to hold it back the next time or two to see if he asks for it...or just play around his anus and see if he starts squirming to get your finger in.Personally, I think it's incredible! Best of luck to you!
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/Not reviving an old thread for nothing - I have an update /Yeah, you were right. That first time I did that he said it was ok. The next couple of times we didn't have much time so I didn't touch his butt. But today I was giving him a blowjob and he actually asked me to play with his ass!!! Like, I was so surprized. And he moaned out of this world... I think, my boyfriend likes anal play. Thanks for your advice.
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your lucky. i tried it with my bf and he doesnt like it :frowning: maybe its just me... he just feels uncomfortable with it..
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Glad it all worked out! It is a great addition to any sexual encounter, but not for eveyone, I guess. And it works almost as well for women as for men, likely because of the number of nerve endings...and possibly because of it's proximity to the opening to the vagina.
Best of luck in all future encounters :grin:
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That's too bad....but he's young so he may just be uncertain about the exeprience and if it should make him question his sexuality. It shouldn't--at all--but that's something every guy has to come to grips with--so to speak--in their own time.
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yeah i guess so hey? i hope he wants to try it sooner or later...im curious over it