right well don't really know where to start but i have been with a guy for nearly five months now, and last night he cheated on me with a friend (we were best friends in school but have now grown apart) he also tried touching up one of my other friends (who i am alot closer to) i have spoken to my friends about it today and she said he was doing it to get back at me (the other week i cheated on him but with another girl, i'm not bisexual i was just drunk and it was a laugh) but now i really don't know what to do, i'm in love with him but i'm not sure if i should forgive him because otherwise he might think he can get away with doing it again?so i'm really confused and would just like some advice on what you would do if you were in my situation?thanks
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Regardless if it was for laughs or not you still cheated on him, so in reality what makes what he did to you any worse than what you did to him? Ever heard "What goes around comes around"?Best advice I can give you is to sit down and talk with your BF and figure out if the relationship is worth saving. When people cheat in a relationship it’s 1) not healthy and 2) breaks the trust. Being in a relationship where it’s always going to be a tit for tat is simply not healthy and personally not worth having.
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Totally agree with ya eddie, whats the point in having that kinda relationship.......
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no one should do anything to "get back" at the other in a relationship. you have to stop and ask yourself if you would like to stay with someone who will intentionally try to hurt you and your friends
I think there's a bit more to it than that. More than one person cheated in this situation and she has to accept responsibility. Regardless, it seems as if neither is really 100% into the relationship, it's flawed from the start.