Girl-on-Girl

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just this past year i have been thinking about girls in a more sexual way. i would like to fool around with one,but then if the time ever comes,i get too nervous and i back out. i have a bf,and he knows about it, but i dunno. another thing is that i get REALLY turned on by looking at lesbian porn..i feel really stupid about asking this, but i am anyway...whats wrong with me???

Absolutely nothing! I would, however, suggest that if you really want to have sex with another woman, you do it without your bf present...otherwise there's too great a possibility of hurt feelings and jealousy. Plus, he's going to want to join in and that might not be a proper experience for you. You seem like a very progressive-thinking girl....more power to you!

yeah we were talking about that actually. and surprisingly enough my bf doesnt want any part of it. he doesnt get off with girl on girl... how weird is that lol. i really want to experience it. with me,ill try anything once. :smile:

and thanx

Um, do you realize that many people consider it cheating when their partner messes around with anyone, no matter what their gender? I mean, I guess if he's okay with it... It's just I don't think he sounds like he is.

Also, if a girl actually wants a relationship to develop, imagine how she would feel when you tell her you have a boyfriend?

o yeah i realize that. thats why i posted here lol. i dont really plan on doing anything. just curiosity i guess. i wouldnt do it if my bf wasnt ok with it. but thanx anyways.

i dont really plan on doing anything.Odd, that runs directly contrary to...>i would like to fool around with one,but then if the time ever comes.....and> i really want to experience it. and>with me,ill try anything once. It sounds like you have tried before to fool around with girls, and backed out at the last minute; yet you sound REALLY willing to try it again. But maybe I'm just reading your posts wrong.

anyways....i said i would "LIKE TO" im NOT saying i will. the time came across but i never did anything. and i would only do it if it was ok with my bf...so yeah.

I think you feel like I am attacking you on moral grounds, or something; in any case, you are getting very defensive about the whole thing. So I appologize, I wasn't trying to be really snide or anything, I was just letting you know how a lot of guys feel when their girl goes and messes around with another girl. Apparently, you already knew though, and my advice was unwelcome. Sorry, again.

o know thats alright... its just that i was reading that other forum (am i gay), and it was making me angry. sorry.

You rule!!

I think its perfectly normal i feel kinda the same way sometimes.

o geez thanks hunn that made my day

o thank god!! i thought i was like a freak or sumthing. :scream_cat: i cant help how i feel. its just moods i get in i guess.

Okay, what's wrong with you is that you're in a relationship in which you have desires outside of it and a boyfriend who's scared to allow you to decide for yourself what you want. Now, that may seem like I'm cutting down the man you obviously love, but I'm not; it goes to the male ego. Having read your posted bio before I first responded to one of your posts--so I knew from where you were coming with your questions--I know you are relatively young and I can only assume your boyfriend is, as well. That said, he's a male, young, and still trying to prove himself in many worlds...and losing a woman to another woman would be crushing to his ego.

Ultimately, what it comes down to is what YOU want. If you feel those desires, you should probably act on them...at least once. If your boyfriend doesn't like that and you do it anyway, don't be surprised if he breaks up with you and talks trash about you--that's what guys do when they're hurt...even if they're regretting what comes out of their mouths the moment it does. However, if you do act on it and say "God, that was the worst experince of my life," he probably won't have an issue...although he may still have a tiny little annoying voice in the back of his head which says "she really doesn't want you...she wants a pussy."

Ultimately, it's your life and your decision. Make the right one. Pardon me for this, as most younger people hate Shakespeare, but on this point he was correct: "...this above all else: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man."

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ya welcome ashley loljust think your first post was ace on this topic , and i wanna worship the ground u walk on hehenot really but ya know what i mean lol

wow...you know what? your pretty dead on there. i love my boyfriend more than i ever thought possible, but i just get this little thought in the back of my mind going "your so young!!", or "maybe you should just try with a girl,to see what happens". and yeah my bf is only 19,so were both pretty young...o and by the way, i freaking love shakespeare!!!

I actually hate to be right in these kinds of things...because it usually means someone's getting hurt, but given my relationship past I understand hurt only too well. And where were you when I was 19??? Oh, right....you weren't born!

i know what you mean ashley ive had those thoughts sometimes too

right now nobodys being hurt. its just thoughts. even tho i may act upon them, i havent, and i probably wont. and i wouldnt do anything unless my bf was COMPLETELY ok with it.

im not going to college this year. next year for me more than likely. but i'll keep it in mind lol