I find the idea of kissing absolutely disgusting!
I am a 24 year old virgin and I have never really been that interested in the idea of kissing people, or even having sex or relationships.
That's why I have never done those things, because I am perfectly happy on my own.
The thought of kissing someone, or tasting someone else's saliva makes me want to vomit.
What is wrong with me, and why can't I think like a normal bloke? Maybe I'm asexual. But what does that mean?
You could be asexual... or just haven't experienced the awesomness that is kissing. If you were asexual you wouldn't be attracted to either sex.
once you find the right person to exerience those things with...you should feel differently. you could be "asexual", or just never had the right oppertunity. either way, i dont think there is anything wrong with you. maybe its that your just a really independant person,and the thought of settling down with somone scares you. i dont know, but i hope i can help you :smile:
My first time out i was frenching and i thought it was slot more fun.
What exactly is "Slot more fun" ???
It makes me wonder precisely what he was frenching!
I think he meant 'alot more fun.'
I know..... but it was funny!
I too, was wondering what he was swapping spit with
People should really proof read before they push the "Continue" button and post.
You dont really have to stick your tongue in your partners mouth :-/ If you really hate it that much, just say so. Who knows, maybe some day you'll get curious and want to try it
Thanks KattieI guess they never mispell anything
My former girlfriend was willing to do anything and everything sexual wise accept kiss on the lips. It never bothered me as sex was so good that I couldn't complaine. I guess it was some type of phobia.
Have you considered going for some type of sexual therapy? I'm not sure asexuality really exists to be honest, it sounds like some sort of heightened sense of phobia to me. Maybe I'm wrong, but surely it would be worth checking out with a counsillor, cause if you cant form relationships it follows that you wont be able to have a family of your own in the future.If that's important to you then it's certainly worth investing some energy in checking it out. It's not something I can identify with at all to be honest, I find slow sensual kissing the most exciting prelude to sex..I think at 24 it's unlikely to be a case of you just not having met the right person. At 24 you'd surely have met at least one person you were seriously attracted to if there was nothing amiss.. Get it checked out, for the sake of your own peace of mind, that'd be my advice.
But I find it hard to talk to a doctor. I cannot just walk in and tell him that I find kissing disgusting. What on earth is the doctor supposed to do once I say that? There is no medicine or psychotherapy available, so why waste a doctor's time?
I have had this problem all my life with doctors, they never listen to me, even if I have something serious wrong with me (schizophrenia, 3 forms of cancer, OCD, paranoia etc etc etc) they always say I am lying and send me home again.
Last time I went to the doctors, I told him that I didn;t like the black marks under my eyes because it made me look ill, and all the Doctor said was that it is hereditary and nothing can be done. I felt like such a muppet.
How do you know you have three forms of cancer? Would those cancers include anal(?), penile, testicular and skin_cancer?> paranoiaManifested, at least in part, as hypochondria.> schizophreniaWhy do you think that? If it's true, are you able to function? There is medication_ available that is sometimes quite effective it treating schizophrenia, but people who actually have it are often quite dysfunctional.> Last time I went to the doctors, I told him that I didn;t like the black marks under my eyes because it made me look ill, and all the Doctor said was that it is hereditary and nothing can be done. I felt like such a muppet.I asked the doctor exactly the same thing, and was told exactly the same thing (except he suggested that concealing cream might help). I don't understand why you felt bad about it. There was nothing wrong with the question, and nothing wrong with the answer. Doctors don't mind being asked questions.The problem is that you need to see a psychiatrist, not a family doctor. I wouln't write off the idea without giving it a fair chance.
Re: concealing CreamDid It, Does It Work?
yes, look for a liquid conceler close to ur own skin colour. id the dark circles r very bad u can use a stick conceller but that can often look very bad as its quite think..like chicks who wear way 2 much foundation...
I have never dreamt about sex or sexy women (or men for that matter) nor have I ever had a wet dream.Does this also suggest that my body simply does not produce enough testosterone to make me normal?
Have you actually been diagnosed with any of those ailments?!
> Does this also suggest that my body simply does not produce enough testosterone to make me normal?
Did you go through puberty normally? If so, then no.
The issues you present are very reminiscent of yANKEE's.
I know I have something severely wrong with me. I have not grown up in the same way as normal people.
I for a long time thought I may be gay, although tbh I am not attracted to men, so how can I be gay? Then again, I am not really that attracted to women, either. I fantasise about women every now and then, but sex is not possible for me due to physical problems such as phimosis and other things.
Maybe I've grown up thinking that sex is not part of my life, so I haven't gone through life craving sex and relationships like most people do.
If I had to classify myself as anything I would say I was asexual. It is a sad way to life, and tbh I'd rather be dead.
And yes, yANKEE was my previous username. If this forum had an adequate password retrieval system then I wouldn't have to keep re-registering every few months.
