Me and my gf are 13 but do things a little further than kissing. She was giving me a bj and we started kissing and we were both naked when her neighbor walked in got a shock and went back out again we were really embarresed and had to go to the door and talk to him and told him to wait in the garden (hes only 11)He asked if we used a condom and i said we werent having sex, my gf was too embaressed to talk and went away.How do we stop this from happening again?
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Got caught by Neighbor
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Lock the door?
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It's ORAL sex. Not many people use condoms for oral sex.
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What the hell are you talking about?Personally at their age they shouldn't be having any sexual relations if you ask me. But when it does come to oral sex it's not common practice to use a condom. Not saying one way is better than the other, simply stating a fact.Many people do not use condoms for oral sex because 1) they taste nasty, even the flavored condoms and 2) the male gets little and sometime no sensation.
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we cant lock the door because then her family may suspect something and we werent having sex and never have or will at 13
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Only other suggestion I can give you than is to find another place that is more secure, because it sounds like anyone can just walk in.And though I respect you for not wanting to have actual intercourse at your age, some might think even oral sex might be too soon for 13 year olds.
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She only lives with her gran who never ever comes upstairs so its not that we were expecting anybody to come up and her room is in the attic so you can hear if somebody is coming up but we had the tv on
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Oral sex is not sex: the Bill Clinton fallacy.Intercourse is just one form of sex.
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is it that dangerous?
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If either of you has a _disease, it's possible that the other can catch it, depending on what it is.
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But i dont have a disease im only 13
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You need to worry about catching something from your partner, not just about giving her something.If both of you have been sexually inactive up until now, there's not much chance either of you will have an STD.
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Okay so really its okay then as long as we are careful, i mean i would never have sex at 13 or under the legal age limit.
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The problem is that, even though you know what you have done, you don't truly, absolutely know what your partner has done.And you are having sex! Intercourse is just one form of sex! Oral sex is sex!!!If you have sex without a condom, unless you absolutely trust that you know your partners situation, then you are taking a big chance. That means oral sex too.
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I think i do know she hasnt done it before, although the is 1 thing but its kinnda difficult to explain
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Lol! Is Bill Clinton the only example you have? you used it alot. Be creative! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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I don't know what you're talking about, but I'm sure it's pointless. Please try to add something useful...at least once in a while.
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Um excuse me ?
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But im just saying that for now its really sort of okay to do it as long as its not intercourse or that?
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Fine okay right but actualy the whole point of this fourm wasn't for me to talk about how safe it is it was about how not to get caught like tips etc.. it kinnda sidetracked a bit sorry.