I've been with my gf for 4 years & she considers herself to have a low libido. I'm a sex addict so I want to have sex all the time but she doesn't. After sex she told me that she loves to watch me masturbate & it really turns her on she also told me that she wants to hump my ass??? She said she never thought about humping a guy’s ass before but she always loved men’s butts. Needless to say I was shocked. So any idea why she wants to masturbate or hump my ass obviously it turns her own but any idea why?
GF wants to see me masturbate
Silk sheets....whipped cream, blueberries, cherries & hours of the best sex & she'll wanna get married.....or maybe she just loves me ....I'll neve...
Wow...that's an interesting one....
Off the top of my head I can think of a couple things that might drive her to these desires: 1) dominance, and 2) simple fetishism.
How much do you know about her sexual past? I don't like to suggest these things, but--having dated two different women who were molested as children--I've found many times women who seem to bring up things of a sexual nature of which you would never suspect of them, sometimes have issues for which they are compensating to allow them to BE sexual. That might also explain why she is less than driven to have sex.
As to the second possibility, she may just like the idea for no greater reason than she does. It happens. There may well be a reason completely unrelated to what I've previously suggested and she just happens to like the idea.
Really not sure what to tell you. I've made it a point to never ask a woman I'm with do anything I wouldn't be willing to do myself (in a heterosexual fashion), so basically, I say: if I want to shove my dick in a woman's ass, I have to be willing to take a similar thing with a comparable-sized dildo, if she wishes to play "tit-for-tat." That has never happened, by the way, but it does give you leverage if you're uncomfortable with what she wants.
Additionally, when you can give a woman something she desires, she often feels more comfortable with you. Just a thought.
Best of luck to you, my friend!
just do it.
you're GF is awsome for both being interested in something new AND for speaking up about it.
Don't waste an opportunity to experement with your lover
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You 're a very lucky guy. You need to know that your girlfriend is very special. Don't be worried by her kinks, it might be just a phase she's going through. Anyways, you should definitely hear her out, and who knows, if you satisfy her fantasies you might make her libido go crazy!
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I love to watch guys masterbate, so it gets me hot to watch my man - so that to me isn't wierd at all - donning a strap on in this house would be a no-no, may even lead to divorce laffin I would, he wouldn't want me to LOL Make the most of a girl who is outgoing and willing to try new things.</font color>
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hell id do it but its up to you?