so im 22 years old,and total socialphobic.i just genererally have a depressive disposition,and low self esteem,though im pretty well off in the looks department.so i dont get out that much.im a virgin and desperate for sex with a woman.
i've also had a porn addiction for years,and well,i think about sex a lot.
i was sexually molested as kid and i think thats why i have initimacy problems.
i've been considering seeing a sex worker.
it's against my values,i passed up sex on many occasions till now because i didnt want to give away my first encounter and those thereafter cheaply.so yeah,i dont get chances anymore,i'm pretty confined to my house and never meet girls.im totally lost on this.
any mature thoughts?
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Sex worker?social suicide?
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and never mind the social suicide bit.what i mean is im afraid it will affect me badly afterwards and im afraid im more likely to contract and std with these women then with someone else?
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I'm more concerned that it won't help. For relieving the sexual tension there's always masturbation; what's most important for you is to get the social confidence to get out of the house and meet people. Getting sex in the house would remove another motivation to get out of it, which is what you really need.
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HUGS N CUDDLES:
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don't see a "sex worker", that's not going to solve anything, and you'll feel worse about yourself afterwards, so you haven't had sex yet....so what??? sex isn't all that it's cracked up to be, wait until you find that special person, it might be tomorrow or it might be a few years from now, either way it's worth the wait