Hello, my name is Billy, or Bill. For quite some time I have really liked this girl. But she has a boyfriend. I just told her straight up that I liked her and she said she liked me too and she is going to dump her boyfriend. WE were really good friends before all this too. She said next time she talked to him she'll break up with him. And previous to this me and her boyfriend were really good friends and we were still until he "found out". He invites me to his house and there are a bunch of people there but I can't find him ... I walk into a room and they my friend and the girl that said she liked me were "doing stuff" together. I talked to her after that a little angry (not a lot) and she said shes bi polar and she made a big mistake. And my response was this was like ok ill forget it. She still hasnt broken up with him yet but she says shes going to and she wants to. Well one day she says shes really stressed aabout the whole thing and I say forget about me just go out with him so she would feel better.. i figured she'd forget about me. Then she got really upset and thought i didnt like her and so i comforted her and said i did. That was like a week ago. I was curious so then a couple days ago I asked her when she was breaking up with him.. She said soon but she didnt want to say somthing she wouldnt follow through with.. but she said she was def. going to do it... I am pretty curious on what to do in this situation.. It seems watever I do is wrong :confused: :confused: :confused:
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Question On Relationship
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Yes, it could end up messy indeed, and the trouble with putting a friendship on the line for the possibility of a relationship is that if the relationship dosent work out you've lost the friendship too. Would it be worth the gamble??
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I think it would be worth the risk but idk... Once he found out he said he never liked me and he just cussed me out and siad really offensive things and i was just like ok...
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Was this before he realised you had an attration to his girl? Or does he know about that at all?
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I think he already knew i had an attraction to the girl when he said this.. o and he made a lot of people hate me along with all the insults
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Com'n Billy...you are dealing with a girl who really doesn't know what she wants. That said, how can you be sure when or if she's with you that some other guy wouldn't be in your position? I'm really not trying to dump on the girl you like, just trying to point out that if she doesn't know now, what makes you think she'll know for sure at some uncertain future date? I'll be willing to bet you money that there is some girl you know who is not one of those involved in this issue who is watching every bit of the heartache you're going through and wishing she were the object of your attraction. It might be worth your effort to step back and take a look around.Just one man's humble opinion