Ok, I'm 18... had a long term relationship for a year, in which there was MUCHO sex going on. We did pretty much everything. However, I never had an orgasm. I was never really satisfied. I do enjoy sex very much, but I always felt "incomplete" because I didn't have one. He told me that it was probably because of my age and lack of experience. A lot of what he said was bullshit, so perhaps this was too. Maybe he just couldn't satisfy me? :wink: I hadn't ever masterbated or anything. I am single now, and would like to start masterbation to let me "know myself" better, but I need some...guidance. I'm used to having someone else do it for me, ya know? I want to have an orgasm! I know I just need to relax, but I feel like I'm missing out! I know that stress or worrying about it, will affect it. :frowning: Please give any and all advice. It is very much appreciated.
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Will I ever orgasm?
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he was talking sh1t.hehe.just keep at it,and you'll get the hang of it.i remember when i was 13 i used to masturbate all the time.my best friend didnt understand why.he'd also stimulate himself sometimes,but he never came,one day we were watching a porno and he nearly went through the roof.so yeah in time,im sure you're work it out.just relax and be patient and enjoy every touch,without concentrating on the final sensation.every touch cause each touch is incremental and leeds to the big o.
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Its not entirely clear from your post that you're a woman, I guess you are. Best way for women to get to know how to orgasm is to buy a vibrator. I'm serious, a vibrator is a 95% success ratio tool, it works nearly every time.Buy one of these pocket rockets, they're the best IMHO. Works for men, too, by the way.
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Sorry! Yeah, I'm a woman. Now, I've thought about the whole vibrator thing, but I've heard (correct me if I'm wrong please) that women who use the vibrator, who get used to the vibrator, won't enjoy sex as well. Cuz, they're used to having the vibrator in order to orgasm.
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Hi, I'm 25, married for 3 years and came closest to my first orgasm the other day. Couple questions:
1.) I also heard that the women would not be pleased by the actual if they used a vibrator or will it help me in reaching one without the vibrator.
2.) Is it best to use something with the vibrator...jelly or anything?
3.) Could the fact that when I was younger, a guy talked me into sex, even though I didn't want to or enjoy it, cause problems for my lack of orgasms? Just curious...Sorry, new to all this.
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Well I'm not a woman, so I wouldn't really know of any good lubricants for that sort of thing, however, I can tell you that Vaseline (petrolium jelly) is the best for me.
