I've never seen my actual penis

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I'm 13 years old and I'm uncircumcised and no matter what I do my dick never comes out of the foreskin. I've came before but even when I become hard my penis just gets longer.. nothing else.I tried to pull the foreskin back but it still didn't work.What's wrong?

Hi Marino,You most likely have phimosis (a tight foreskin).What you are going to have to do is stretch the fore until you can retract. It won't be easy or quick. Start of by trying to slide the skin down (have a go in the bath, it makes it easier) and you should be able to see the glans (head) popping out. If you can see if you can get your finger under the skin and stretch it out to the side.Like I said it won't be a quick process, but the more often you do it the faster your results. Pop over to the foreskin and circumcision section for more info about it.

I've neevr seen anything hidden under the skin either, I'm not sure its anything to worry about realing, though yesterday I decided I would make it retratable.

definate phimosis that , get some stretching done mate like someone said in the shower or bath or just a cup of hot water dip your penis in it maybe 3 times a day , if its a bad phimosis then surgery for a circ is probably the only option

Is it really serious that I have that? I don't think its such a bad thing. It's not like it hurts or anything like that. The only concern I can think of is if girls would think its weird... it doesn't even look weird though.

No no no! It is not that serious at all. I didn't start stretching until I was 17 and now I'm fine. You're still only 13 the skin will very easily be stretched.

no you do not need surgey or anything. It not such a bad thing atall. Plenty of guys cant see their temple, some guys just cant its a simple as that. Mine doesnt hurt and I can still have pleasure through my dick, so their is no worries. Stretch your foreskin so you can retract if thats what you want to do, but theres no reason why you have to.

Ah sorry to contradict you, but there is a reason to be able to retract.

Unprotected sex with an unretractable penis can be VERY painful and can lead to tears and/or para-phimosis. Also it feels a lot better when you can retract!

I know there are reasons. My emphasis was on "have to". If its not causing you any problems then theres no big deal. I havnt had sex, but I know a guy who cant see his temple and he has a long-term girlfriend and he says there aint no problems for him. Wheras at the other end of the spectrum is my uncle who actualy did have surgery for it when he was young cos it just from getting hard. It varies from person to person.

Of course noone has to do it. But I would definately advise doing it. Believe me you don't want to find out first hand how painful it can be.

But is it really the same for everyone? I would be surprised given my conversations with the guy I mentioned. Surely the extent to which you are tight. Maybe you were just particularly tight?

Yep probably. But again I wouldn't advise people finding out the hard way.

Also the whole cleaning issue, you need to be cleaning under there.

You most likely have phimosis (a tight foreskin).Isn't phimosis more than just tightness of the foreskin?

I don't know the technical defintion, but if you look at it you think "that foreskin is tight". The tight band around the top is what's stopping retraction, I don't think people have tight foreskins without phimosis.

Phimosis is a specific condition that makes retraction impossible. Phimosis equals tightness while tightness does not equal phimosis.

Do you think, sdp, to call it phimosis there must be a phimotic ring?

No.. If you look at the definition.. it's an abnormal tightness that prevents retraction. I wouldn't say tightness becasue a guy has never tried retracting, phimosis.

I would agree. Phimosis is where there is a ring of inflexible tissue around the opening of the foreskin. This is not the same as where the normal tissue is just too tight, which is the case with most young boys up to a certain age. That age varies from about 3 to 17 so for a 13-year old it might just be that it's not ready to retract yet, especially if it's never been tried before.You should certainly start trying now though.

trust me, you dont want to find out how painful unprotected, unretracted sex is on the spot with a hot girl waiting for you to nail her to the bedpost. dont set yourself up like that. i sure did.i cant retract when hard and ive been having sex with my gf of 8 months frequently. i have to wait until she comes (more than just wet) so i can glide in unretracted. she has to be on bottom, if shes on top it tries to retract me.im getting myself cut soon. you dont want to have a sex life like the one i currently have. im shackled to my foreskin's problem.