What to do?

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Ok, earlier I went over to my boyfriends house to see if he wanted to go watch a movie or something. His sister was doing gardening work in the front, so she let me in and told me he was in his room. So I go to his room and I find him in his room naked with cum all over him and stuff and as soon as I saw him I turned around and shut the door. I left acting like nothing happened and he has been calling me constantly since then and been ringing the doorbell to my house (downside of living a few minutes away from his house). I know, its stupid not talking to him just because I saw him naked, but I know I will feel uncomfortable everytime I see him and I keep imagining seeing him naked/ripping his clothes off and us having passionate sex (lol, sorry, laugh everytime I think about it), but I am afraid if I am with him I will do it, but I don't want to have sex yet (still a virgin by the way) so what should i try doing to not htink about what happened and not feel uncomfortable

So you don't want to deal with it, but would rather make believe it never happened?

He did what he was doing whether or not you saw him. It's what males do. Seeing him do it didn't make him a different person. Are you now a different person?

Well I know all guys do it, I guess I just never really thought I would actually see one doing it. So I guess your right, he isn't different, I mean I know he did it, he even did it sometimes when we talk on the phone (ya, I could tell) , its just I just now feel really uncomfortable but I dont get why! I also kind of feel guilty since i kind of invaded him or atleast felt like I did. I would rather try to act like I never saw or anything, but I guess I will talk to him.

Sometimes acting as if something uncomfortable never happened is a convenient way of dealing with the embarrassment, but by not talking to him at all you're not doing that. If it hadn't happened you'd be answering the phone or doorbell. Instead you're effectively giving him the cold shoulder, which is unfair.

I think the only logical solution is to let him see you in that position hehe :grin:
But seriously, it's way more embarrassing on his side. He's probably thinking what if his mother or sister saw instead of you. I dunno, sounds like a pretty good thing to laugh about with him.

Ineligible: Sometimes acting as if something uncomfortable never happened is a convenient way of dealing with the embarrassment, but by not talking to him at all you're not doing that. If it hadn't happened you'd be answering the phone or doorbell. Instead you're effectively giving him the cold shoulder, which is unfair. - Ya, your right, it would be unfair to kind of act like I am rejecting him since it probaly is really embarrasing to be caught like that.Big Jay: I think the only logical solution is to let him see you in that position hehe But seriously, it's way more embarrassing on his side. He's probably thinking what if his mother or sister saw instead of you. I dunno, sounds like a pretty good thing to laugh about with him. Lol, i think your right, when I see him later I am going to tease a little about it, but atleast make him feel okay about it so he wont jump over a cliff or something, but when I see him I will give him a little bit more than a talk (and no I am not having sex with him, but I might tease him with a little sexual tension, i am so evil, lol

If you caught him passing gas, I'm sure it wouldn't be such a big deal. Masturbation is as natural and as small a deal as farting. There's no need to invest it with such power and significance.> I keep imagining seeing him naked/ripping his clothes off and us having passionate sexI don't think the problem in any way lies with him. And a molehill is not a mountain.