Hey everybody, I have a small problem... I have a new gf that I've been with for about a month, and we've messed around quite a few times. The first time it was all hands, and the second time she gave me a blow job. On the second time I was able to cum, and it was amazing, but everytime since I will almost cum then go soft. I'm only 20, but I do masturbate quite a bit, which I think may be hurting this whole situation. I really like her, and when I go soft it really sucks seeing the look in her eye of not getting me to cum. It sounds odd, but she takes it kinda hard. Anyways, if anybody has any advice it'd be great!! Thanks
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Problems cumming with gf
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is it the blowjob situation that you cant cum?dude its a mixture of being used to masturbating where u are used to your hands feel etcand not all guys can cum from a blowjob , have u seen porn films where the man has to wank himself to cum?so wouldnt worry to much , maybe cut down a tad of masturbating if your doing it a lot and concentrate on your girl
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Some women would take it personally if their man consistantly didnt orgasm during sex/sexual play, I think I would too. So yeah, that sounds like the way to go, ease up on the masturbating and see if that makes a difference, I have a feeling it will.
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off topic but why cant i have a gf like you lol my gf never wants me to cum...thinks i shouldnt do that till were married...so of coarse i make her argasm and make myself come other ways lol...anyway hope it goes better for you
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your g/f doesnt want you to cum?
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yea...he says so in his other post...poor guy offers sympathy
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No offence to your girlfriend, but that sounds distinctly fucking odd to me! Is she very religous or something? If my bloke didnt come I'd feel like he hadnt enjoyed it sufficiently, which (I suppose I shouldnt, but I know that I would) I'd take as a personal reflection on me.I WANT my man to come, and the louder and more urgency involved the better! I get a buzz out of it..In fact, years ago, before I learned to orgasm myself, I used to get a real turn on out of the man coming (wasnt with my present partner at the time) and it used to turn me on no end, but of course it was all a bit pointless getting worked up to bits at the point that he was shooting his load, ha ha!
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yeah true star , i found it very odd his girl didnt want him to cum? , was it is some kind of torture lol
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Maybe she's getting a sexual kick out of it and the marriage stuff is a load of bollocks!
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hope not , cos not wanting him to cum is plain cruel , but am failing to believe it
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more along the religous lines...thinks that should wait till were married...yet she teases the hell outta me lol but watever were still going good and i love to make her orgasm so its fun either way
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Ok so im having a bad day and an especially blonde moment, but correct me if im wrong - she gives you a blowjob etc and you fool around, but she thinks you shouldn't cum until you're married????? but its also OK for her to cum before shes married????
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You must be exceptionally understanding, I know where my bloke'd tell her to go!
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well no she wont give me a blowjob (and im not really asking her to i mean if she was comfertable with it then cool but watever) yea pretty much and more than anything its her being scared of getting pregnant...she doesnt want to eb the one that got the freak pregnancy without having sex so she doesnt think i shoould cum...im all cool with it for now but im hopeing to change it soon
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Thanks for the info, but talk about a thread jack!!! That happens a lot here..
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dude get over it...its not like we ignored ur question it was answered in the begining so it wasnt a thread jack more like a second thread after yours so just chill
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argasmIs that what you call it when a pirate ejaculates?
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Is that what you call it when a pirate ejaculates? OMG steve, thats my keyboard covered in coffee laffin thanks for that i needed a smile this morning
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Damn....I KNEW there was someplace I was supposed to be!
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Does my face - in avatar - look amused??? LOL
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Amused? Hardly...But I think it's a face I'd like to see up close and personal to find out