How do you know

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i have a friend that has never had a girl and he is 17 and always talks about a penis and guy things like that.i kind of thank he is weard(gay). i dont realy like gay people because i am very much a christion. how can u tell if someone is gay with out asking because if he is not i dont want he to git pissed at me. help tell me what to do

Sometimes people don't like what they're afraid of, or what they're afraid that they might be.> i dont realy like gay people because i am very much a christion.That's not a very Christian attitude. Aren't you supposed to not judge people (lest you be judged)?There is no way to tell if someone is gay unless they tell you (and are willing to admit if they are). So since there's really no other way to know for sure, why don't you just treat everyone with respect? It's the safest path.

Hi A-bombKid, gay people aren't weird, and being a Christian doesn't mean going around judging other people. If you have the attitude that if he is gay then you are going to condemn him, then he isn't going to tell you.

make a move on him and see how he respond

sometimes its obvious that someone is gay , but in your case maybe it isnt , just ask him openly one on one dude but dont go off in a bad way if he admits he's gay as he may not have come out yet and will be tough for him

Wow, i have never encountered someone who just soent like gays, and you cant just reject gays because you're "cristian". Dude thats really bias and fucked up though that you just don't gays.Wow, what have they ever done to you?Wow, you would just not be someones friend SIMPLY because they're gay?!Dude, thats REALLY fucked up man.

Just because he has never had a girl does NOT even come close to determining his sexual orientation.

i believe he was talking about the OP's hostility towards gays in general not necessarily that the "friend" was most definately gay

I agree. It's why i don't like most Christian's. Anyway's, So what if he's gay? I've known a few gay people before. Nothing wrong in it.

Yes, thank you.Christianity believes that judging people is God's job and God's alone. Humans doing that, Christian or not, all sinners, would be blasphemy.

"i dont realy like gay people because i am very much a christion." yea, my dads a christian preist and he has no problem with gay people, he out ranks you, he went to school and every thing.