So...went out with a coworker the other night and got wayyy too drunk. I don't remember much of the night, but when I woke up I was at his house...I had my clothes on and of course I felt like someone had beat me up..didn't think much of it til I got home and saw a huge bite mark on my back...then I started to worry...what made it worse was the guy's friends were teasin me about havin sex w/ the guy and now the guy won't talk to me...so I'm wondering is there any way to tell if I had sex with him?
My drunken moments...
i gather you have no recollection of what happened.
he beat you?and may have had sex with you?
im no expert,but i'd speak to a police officer about it.
a female one in your case,if a male would make you feel uneasy.
sorry to hear bout all that,
let me know how you feeling.
i meant...i think i just felt like someone beat me up cause i drank so much...i don't think he literally beat me up in that sense...
oh,ok,thats a relief :smile:
speak to him,demand to speak to him,meet for coffee or something non alcoholic:)
dont let him get away with the silent treatment.
thats not fair to you.
unfortunately, if the guy doesnt want to tell you the truth then there is no real way you can find out the answer...
whats the moral of the storey here ppl....
how long til u can take a pregnancy test?
normally ppl take them after there 1st missed period, but some ppl can be preg and have periods, so if i was you just take one.....well aslong as its a few weeks after you had sex.
I've kinda had the same experience, although I KNOW we didn't have sex. There were quite a few unexlained marks on my back. Hickies, bite markes, etc. I remember everything else about that night, so why not that too? Oh well, he wasn't good at anything, so it's probably a blessing I couldn't remember.
"Be who you are and say what you want, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." -Dr. Suess